When a boy meets a girl he likes, those who are more introverted may only like the girl silently and dare not express their love to the girl. A bolder person may take the initiative to pursue it, but the pursuit method is incorrect, and in the end it will only end in a disastrous failure. So how should a boy pursue a girl he likes? Let’s talk about specific ways to chase the girl you like.
How to pursue a girl you like
1. Don’t believe what a girl says
Some conditions that girls may mention, such as 180cm, 180cm Square meters and so on, and use this as an excuse to tell you that you can't do it. This is just like each of them liking Xiao Buzhan and Wang Erbo. It's just their own wishful thinking.
Most of the emotional words of girls are no different from sneezing. Don’t doubt yourself based on their words. Of course, you must respect the other person and don’t argue with her. Just understand it in your heart.
2. Don’t always have the attitude of giving to the end
If you always think, as long as you No matter how you do it, the other party will respond and be moved, and there is a high probability that you will only get loneliness. So when chasing a girl you like, don’t think about how to treat her well, treat her to whatever you want to eat today, and take her wherever you want.
Chasing will only impress her. No matter how much you do, she will only like what you do, unless you are very strong and can bring her to experience a life that she rarely experiences, such as girls taking the subway every day. You take a luxury car to and from get off work every day; a girl’s breakfast is 10 yuan, and you take her to have a 100-yuan breakfast every day, otherwise you will never be together,
So you have to learn to find your own shining point and amplify it , this is what attracts girls, not being a caring and good person.
3. Accept that girls don’t like you
Generally speaking, the reality is: you like it Girls, there is a high probability that they are not very attracted to you, because human nature tends to have a better and more complementary partner.
For example, a short person likes a tall person, a poor person likes a rich person, etc. Etc., but these are not static. Under the same conditions, some people may be completely indifferent to you, but if you change to someone who understands you, you will still be you, and they may regard you as a treasure. Accepting that girls don't like you is actually accepting yourself, and you will be more confident.
4. Never pester a girl
The pestering is not because of how much you love the girl, it’s really like You lack the chips in your hand. When you can't do it without her, it's not that she is too good, but that you are too low. The more you act like this, the more she will leave you. What you have to do is make more friends. When you lose her, you will still have many friends.When you’re looking for it, it doesn’t matter.
She will only take care of you when you don’t care anymore. Human nature is like this, so while you are still young, you only need to choose a promising industry, work hard, and the house you live in is not bad. Buy one. It doesn’t matter if you have a car loan. At this time, you will be surprised to find that most girls are still very proactive. They will also shamelessly say good morning and good night to you. They will also take the initiative to invite you to dinner and movies. Don’t make excuses. , this is reality.
