When you are in a relationship, it is very common for your friends to be in a bad mood. As a boyfriend, you naturally need to know how to make your girlfriend happy. So how do you make your girlfriend happy when she is in a good mood? Here are some ways to make your girlfriend happy.
How to comfort your girlfriend when she is in a bad mood?
1. Do you know why she is angry?
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B: Not sure -> Go to 2
2. Discover the reason
It is too common for boys to not understand why their girlfriend is angry. And because you don't know what the problem is, girls tend to get angrier. At this time, boys will feel particularly aggrieved and confused. They want to coax but don’t know where to start. Then they start to become impatient. Even if they coax, it will be perfunctory.
Therefore, discovering the reasons for anger is the basis for solving problems.
At this time, boys must adjust their mentality and adopt the attitude of "No matter how you make things difficult for me, I don't mind. I really just love you and feel sorry for you, and I can't bear to see you unhappy." I want to know what I did wrong, so that I can improve and never make you unhappy again" to guide girls to tell them the reasons.
You can guide by guessing, for example, am I doing something like that? If you don’t guess correctly, make another guess.
Don’t ask repeatedly what’s wrong with you, and avoid the expression “what’s wrong with you again”, because this can only show that you are impatient with her, and even imply that she is often unreasonable.
Girls are really sensitive when they are unhappy. Remember, if you show any trace of impatience, you have already failed more than half before you even start coaxing.
3. Let her know that you understand her
If you don’t know at first, you’ll find out by asking. You know, then the process of her confiding to you has actually reduced her anger by half. The more carefully you ask and the more you let her talk, the more her anger will drop. If a girl is unhappy, it is likely that she is affected by your attitude. All you have to do is channel her emotions in appropriate ways.
The most important thing about coaxing her is to let her understand that you understand her.
4. Apologize
Okay, at this point her anger has basically subsided. You just need to apologize and analyze the specific situation in detail.
Acting coquettishly, being cute, pretending to be serious, etc. are all good, to show that you will not do the same thing again next time or how you will deal with it the next time you encounter something similar.
If it is something that is difficult to change in your own personality, you should show that this is how you are.However, you know that she will be unhappy because of this, so you will try your best to adjust to her and adapt to her. You may not be able to meet her requirements in a short time, but you will indeed work hard.
5. Action
At this time, after admitting the mistake and apologizing, all that is left is Coax.
Just do whatever you are good at, whether it’s sweet talk or direct action.
Follow this process to coax a girl. I can guarantee that every time she is angry, your relationship will be better, and she will be angry less and less in the future.
Because in fact, the process of you coaxing her is a process of active communication and full understanding between both parties, which is very helpful for the two people to get along.
