When chasing a girl, material things are a condition that cannot be ignored, but that does not mean that material things can help you chase a girl. After all, there are many people with better conditions than you. If the other person encounters a girl with better conditions, you will not leave directly. You left. So how do you pursue a girl you like?
If you want a girl to truly trust you, rely on you, and be willing to be with you down-to-earth for a long time, spiritual resonance and satisfaction are very important. of a link. So how can you make the other person mentally inseparable from you?
1. Deepen contact step by step
You have to pay attention to the step-by-step approach to upgrading your relationship.
How to use a step-by-step method?
For example, before confessing, first consider whether the emotional foundation is in place?
If not, before dating When you are in love, send out more signals of eye contact and body contact to let the other party receive your love.
For example, if you expect to go home late, bring a coat to the girl and put it on her personally.
When listening to her, look gently into her eyes and don't be afraid to look her in the eye.
After three or five visits like this, doesn’t the other person still know what you mean? Isn’t it obvious what her attitude towards you is?
At this time, you can naturally transition to the next step. One step is the best time.
2. Both gentleness and domineering
Be gentle when you should be gentle, be domineering when you should be domineering, girls will like you.
For example, she is very concerned about her figure and asks you to supervise her not to eat sweets.
Occasionally when she is greedy for cake, although you pretend to blame her, you will also give her some water, and she will be very proud of it.
But when she wants to eat ice cream, you can take the ice cream away in a domineering manner and tell her that she can’t eat it because eating it cold is not good for her health.
Although some words may sound like reproach, she actually knows that you care about her.
Life needs sentiment, and love should occasionally add some seasoning. Tenderness and domineering may be the secret key to opening her heart!
3. Know how to exercise self-restraint
Some people are accustomed to putting their own feelings first and will not consider them at all.
No one will quibble with you about such a trivial matter. You will only complain a few words about the good and the bad, and they will forget about it in two days.
But feelings are still different. Because this is a matter between the two of you, even if you don’t say a lot of subtle thoughts, rightFang can also feel it.
If the time you spend together is relatively short, even if you can feel that the other person has a good impression of you, you guys should not be too anxious to have too close contact.
Maybe the other person is not ready yet, and may feel uncomfortable with your recklessness.
So you should observe the other person’s attitude and consider her feelings.
This way she will understand that you really care about her and are not acting impulsively.
If you choose restraint when you want to be unrestrained, girls will definitely feel it and think you are really trustworthy.
So in the final analysis, the prerequisite for the relationship between the sexes is to be sincere.
This is the lowest cost but the most impressive quality.
