Because of the reserved psychology of girls, many times when a girl likes a boy, she may not take the initiative to pursue him. Instead, he will let the boy know his feelings through a series of hints and let the boy take the initiative to pursue her. But many times, boys are so neurotic that they simply cannot read the hints from girls. Girls give hints for a long time and then stop after seeing no response from boys. In this way, boys miss a good opportunity to get out of singles. Let me share with you the hints a girl gives you to pursue her. If you understand the hints, you will not miss the opportunity.
1. Being able to make an appointment
Being able to make an appointment is the highest rule, no matter how passionate the two of you chat on WeChat. Even if she replies to every message you send instantly, it doesn’t prove anything. You can’t imagine how much energy a woman puts into chatting on WeChat when she’s bored.
But there are costs to be paid for making a date (time cost, cosmetics cost), so don’t consider it if you can’t date a woman.
2. Dress up carefully for a date
Dressing up is the second signal. Young people are lazy, and they are compromising themselves in order to meet you. At least they have enough subjective initiative to meet you. Well, girls are like this, and you also need to know what to do.
3. You can go on a date wherever you want.
Not only can you make a date, but you are also very "obedient". She will be happy no matter how you arrange it (she will even be happy with some embarrassing arrangements). , this is sending a signal: It doesn’t matter what your kid does, as long as he can stay with you.
4. Like to look at you secretly
The first sign of liking someone is to like looking at that person. No matter whether you are a man or a woman, you cannot avoid this.
If it is a group of people, then when everyone laughs, you are the first person she looks at, then she must have you in her heart.
Add some subconscious body language:
When the other person likes you, their body will inevitably twist towards you or tilt in your direction. The legs and feet, especially, will be pointed towards you. Pay attention to this observation, normal people can't pretend to do this if they don't like it.
5. Smiling a lot in front of you
There is no reason to be happy when I am with the person I like. This is easy to understand. Talking a lot is also a sign of liking and trust. Open the chat box first, and then open the heart box.
6. Will look for you the day after the date
It is very important whether the other person comes to chat with you the day after the date. This directly reflects the other person’s feelings after the date. In other words, this is "missing you".
The upgraded version is: after the first date, she takes the initiative to ask you out. Then you are 90% sure that you can kiss her in the future.
7. Flicking your hair in front of you
Girls will subconsciously care about their hairstyle in front of the person they like. IfIf the other person keeps flipping their hair or playing with the ends of their hair, then you are in trouble.
8. Don’t mind physical contact
The safe social distance between people is between half a meter and 1.5 meters. If you get closer to her within half a meter, and you occasionally touch her, Touch: Hold her back or touch her arm. If she doesn't hide, that's a clearer signal.
However, this must be based on the fact that the previous situations are consistent. If they are not consistent, don’t be rude!
9. Don’t take the initiative to find you but will reply immediately after chatting
After the above situations are consistent, If she plays "push and pull" again at this time, then what will be exposed is her own emotions. The trump cards are all revealed, why are you still trying to catch me? It's time for you to confess your feelings.
Remember, don’t confess your love via WeChat, don’t ask “can you be my girlfriend” in person, and don’t leave candles all over the floor, because most girls are not that decisive and brave.
Make an appointment, find a romantic atmosphere, hold hands and kiss directly, and it will happen naturally. It's up to you to make the decision, don't wait for the girl to decide. The girl's decision has long been made in her heart, she just doesn't say it out loud.
10. I will give you a small thing made by myself
I heard this from a girl, and the accuracy needs to be verified. Note, to verify, she actually did it with her own hands.
