With the development of the times, chasing girls now is not about just giving her gifts. You can catch her by being nice to her. If you don’t master the correct skills to chase girls, it will be difficult to catch the girl you like.
Today, the editor has many years of practical experience in love behavior to teach you how to pursue the girl you like.
1. Evaluate difficulty level
Whether a woman is good or not does not depend on how good she is. , but depends on how good the man who pursues her is. Similar to the relationship between supply and demand in a market economy, if you can pursue something, other men can too, and competition arises. A woman will choose the best and most reliable man among the men who pursue her.
In some cases, girls have very good conditions, but due to lack of social interaction, they have few suitors. In some cases, girls have very average conditions, but they like to socialize, like to use various stranger apps, and have many suitors.
Therefore, if you want to more easily pursue the girl you like, you must first evaluate the degree of difficulty.
2. Obtain girls’ contact information
In our social habits, further development through online chatting is a necessary stage. No matter how you meet a girl, online chatting is the only way to go.
If you want to pursue a girl, you must first obtain her contact information. The editor recommends that you must ask for it in person. Don’t let someone else do it for you, or let someone else push your business card. Unless you have no interaction with the other party and don’t know how to contact the other party. Otherwise, it will make the woman feel that you don’t believe you. You like her, but you are afraid of face-to-face communication with her. How can you make her fall in love with you?
3. Break the ice through chatting
For girls who have not had direct contact, the most important step is to break the ice. You need to break the ice first to get around the strangeness and restraint among strangers. Two people in an awkward and shy state cannot communicate normally.
The best way to break the ice is to pretend that you know each other well. For a girl you just met, you can try to break the ice by finding topics in her.
4. Ignore logical rationality
We chat with women not to solve any problems, but to let girls have more emotional experiences with us through chatting. Many friends who lack love experience always try to solve some problem when chatting with girls due to their long-term straight thinking.
For example, rest more when you are sick, remember to take medicine when you are sick, and wear more clothes when it is cold.
Remember, the purpose of getting along with a girl is to cultivate feelings and let her have emotional experiences. The chat should be unconstrained and pay attention to the girl.Emotional experience.
5. Build attraction through chatting
Many friends and girls will only talk about their parents’ shortcomings, Please the girls and talk about girls. In fact, the only thing this can do is strengthen the familiarity between each other, and it cannot establish any attraction. The purpose of chatting with girls is to make her like us and have feelings for us.
Value creates attraction, and value will make you feel excited. When you see a flower-like woman, your heart will move. The reason is that she carries high reproductive value. The emergence of value changes your emotional feelings and makes you feel excited.
If you want to attract a girl and make her fall in love with you, you need to show your value, your life, and your shining points.
6. Invite through chat
No matter how sweet you chat on the Internet, your relationship must be implemented in reality. Only face-to-face interaction can truly turn her into your girlfriend. Any chat that is not for the purpose of invitation is pure hooliganism.
For an invitation, the most important prerequisite is that the girl must like you. Only if she likes you will she want to date you. If you try to date a girl, she will always have many reasons why she can't date you. That basically means that the attraction and promotion during the chat stage are not in place.
A girl who likes you has 10,000 reasons to see you, and a girl who doesn’t like you has 10,000 reasons not to see you.
7. Promote the relationship instead of confessing
For a romantic relationship, the substance of the relationship is more important than the form. . If a girl likes you and you warm up the relationship with her, she will not reject you, whether it is verbal or physical. Similarly, if a girl refuses to warm up the relationship with you, it means that she doesn't like you at the moment.
Regarding the fact of liking and liking, confession does not have the slightest effect. Confession will only make girls more cautious and harsh in your relationship, making your relationship even more distant.
