Being jealous among girls is a normal psychological reaction and a different expression of love and concern. Subconsciously, it is a kind of protection for feelings and fear of loss. Generally speaking, the more a girl loves you, the more likely she is to become jealous. However, excessive jealousy is a manifestation of girls' possessiveness and jealousy.
When a girl is jealous, give her a kiss and a hug to comfort her fragile heart.
1. Ignore you
There are many girls in life, even if they are angry, they will not Take the initiative to express your dissatisfaction. But use another way to "punish" boys.
If you suddenly find that your girlfriend with whom you are having a good relationship suddenly ignores you, before you suspect that the other person is in a different relationship, the first thing you should consider is whether the other person is jealous.
This requires boys to have a strong ability to introspect and recall what they did during this period of time to make girls feel unhappy.
Why don’t girls directly explain it to boys when they are obviously unhappy or have doubts in their hearts?
First of all, they don’t want boys to feel that they care about him.
There is a famous saying in love, "Whoever speaks love first loses."
Everyone pays differently in a relationship, and the person who pays more usually loses. They will care more about each other and be reluctant to part with this relationship.
Who wants to be known by the other party that they have been manipulated to death?
Secondly, I want to know whether the boy realizes that his behavior is inappropriate.
What girls want is for the boy to realize from the bottom of his heart that his behavior has caused harm to the girl, rather than for the girl to bring it up and then force the boy to admit his mistake and then get a perfunctory apology.
Finally, girls need time to calm down.
Girls’ minds are relatively delicate compared to boys, so many things are big things in the eyes of girls, but in the eyes of boys, they are just unreasonable troubles made by girls.
When a person loses control of his emotions, he is not suitable for communication. The best thing to do at this time is to calm down with each other. Therefore, some girls will choose to ignore it and let their emotions gradually recover. When the emotion passes, many things will become clearer.
2. Sarcasm
If girls don’t say anything, boys will not realize their problems for a long time. Some girls can't help but "remind" boys. Of course, the way of reminding is a bit special, and many times it sounds like cynicism.
For example, a boy and a girl shared a delicious food they had at a friend’s party. Not only did it not arouse the curiosity and envy of girls. On the contrary, if a girl says coldly"I eat and eat all day long, as if I haven't had enough to eat."
Boys may be confused by girls' sudden cynicism. Are girls angry because they didn't eat delicious food? No, girls She was angry because the boy went to eat delicious food with others and neglected her.
She is jealous of her boyfriend.
3. Girls compare themselves with other "reference objects"
In relationships, the more a person cares, the more humble they will love. A girl will worry about gains and losses in love, and she will unconsciously compare herself with other "reference objects" around boys.
This "reference object" can be a person or something else:
1) Who do you think is more beautiful, me or her (the boy's ex)?
2) Do you want to play games or play with your girlfriend?
3) Go to accompany your stinky buddies again!
Always take advantage of yourself and others, Even girls who compare themselves to other things usually lack confidence in relationships. They take love very seriously, their lives revolve around boys every day, and they will also ask boys to regard themselves as the center of their lives.
Girls’ care is considered “suffocating love” in the eyes of many boys.
4. Keep emphasizing that she is not angry
If you feel that her aura has become colder , but she kept emphasizing that she was not angry. At this time, most girls are angry.
When girls are jealous, they like to say sarcastic things. For example, you are obviously angry, but you say you are not angry. You obviously want it, but you say you don’t want it.
If boys really listen to girls and let girls continue to indulge their emotions, the result may turn into a cold war.
When a person emphasizes to you that she is fine, she probably has something on her mind. You just need to be more patient, give the other person care and companionship, and slowly they will open up to you.
