Whenever love is mentioned, many people will think that it is a special relationship between men and women, but there are also a small number of people who think that love is the affection between two people and has nothing to do with gender.
But in a psychology textbook at a certain university, homosexuality is explained as a deformed psychological disorder that requires discrimination. This topic has caused an uproar on the Internet, and many netizens have participated. Discuss whether homosexuality is truly unacceptable.
In a broad sense, love is a kind of emotion, which usually refers to the special feelings shown by people in the love stage.
In a narrow sense: it is a strong, pure, and dedicated love formed between men and women based on a common ideal of life, a mutual admiration for each other in their hearts, and a desire for the other person to become their lifelong partner. emotion.
The former explanation does not distinguish between men and women. It is more about whether the spiritual world of the two people is compatible and whether they have special feelings. However, in law, there is a distinction between men and women and there is no affirmation. Or deny the feelings of same-sex people, but fail to provide corresponding legal protection to same-sex people.
So when you look at love from different levels, your views on love will also be different, but you have to know that there is no love in this world, and animals only have physiological instinctive reactions. , mating continues from generation to generation for the continuity of the species. When humans evolve and possess a spiritual world, love is born.
And the initial love was just simple liking. After millions of years of evolution, with the development of the spiritual world, love has become more and more complex, gradually transcending the category of "like". Now love is based on Rich communication, emotional cognitive methods and social beliefs, but it still cannot be separated from the original and simplest "like".
Therefore, whether it is the same sex or the opposite sex, the reason why love occurs is actually the same process, but because of gender and cognition The difference between them has caused many people to be unable to understand love between same-sex couples, just like people in ancient times were unable to accept monogamy and felt that polygamy was the basic setting of society.
Because society is developing, although the law now only protects marriages between opposite sexes, this does not mean that homosexuality is wrong and unacceptable.
Just like some countries, homosexuality has been included in the marriage law and marriage is allowed. So when it comes to homosexuality, if you don't agree with it, there is no need to be anti-gay, because it is just a branch of love.
When you face a long-distance relationship, you will feel that it is difficult for them to manage a relationship and that their love is hard-won. In fact, the same is true for homosexuals. They like the same sex and are discriminated against by many people, and because social cognition, which made her feel very tortured.
Therefore, if they want to run a relationship, they will be more tired and have more things to overcome, but this does not mean that they are psychological. Obstacle, because in their psychology, the same sex is the same as the opposite sex in your eyes. They will also be attracted to them and they can spend a lifetime together.
In fact, many gay people are influenced by their past and have suffered psychological trauma. For example, some people are noisy and noisy all the time because of the influence of their original family, maybe because of their parents’ marriage. , which caused her to have a strong dislike for a certain person, and thus created a fear of the opposite sex.
She feels that people of the opposite sex will quarrel and even get hurt when they are together, so she will feel that only the same sex can understand and love herself, and she slowly loses interest in the opposite sex and becomes attracted to the same sex. Extremely curious.
Or some people were hurt by their significant other in their previous relationship, which caused her to label the opposite sex as unfaithful and unspecific, feeling that all opposite sexes in the world are the same, which makes her She has come to only trust people of the same sex, so when choosing a partner, she will be confused by this illusion, thinking that the relationship between the same sex is the real love.
Therefore, homosexuality is not a psychological disorder, nor is it anti-personality, whether it is love between opposite sexes or love between same sexes.
All we need to maintain is respect for love. There is no need to criticize or praise. Everyone has their own love. Just manage your own love well. There is no need to point out the love of others. Guidance, this is the correct love value.
