"Security" is a very important thing in the hearts of girls, but it can't be seen or touched, which gives many boys a headache. So what exactly is the so-called sense of security for girls? The editor can't tell you. You have an exact definition. But here I can share with you some experience on how to give your girlfriend a sense of security.
In fact, the sense of security that your girlfriend wants from you is nothing more than your care, and this care is not just words. The key is to prove it with actions. For example:
1. Remember her preferences
As we said before, be good to girls. More important than treating her to a feast is knowing what she likes to eat. If she doesn't like Western food, even if you serve the best steak in the world, it will still be just an ordinary steak in her eyes. Being distracted is harder and more precious than spending money. Therefore, the key to giving her a sense of security is to remember your girlfriend's preferences and cater to them in a timely manner.
2. Share interesting things with her
Each of us is a parallel line. They have different life trajectories, but if two people decide to be together, it means that they will have to experience and manage many things together in the future and integrate into each other's lives. The relationship between two people still needs to be managed.
For example, think of her when you encounter something interesting, take the initiative to share it with her, let her know how your emotions will be affected, and let her participate in your life.
Taking the initiative to share your thoughts with the other party during the chat and asking for the other party’s opinions will make the other party feel that she has weight and presence in your heart.
3. Take what she said to heart
"I have said it hundreds of times, I can't eat spicy food, why can't you remember it?"
"Every time you order takeout, you need disposable chopsticks. Didn't I tell you? Bring your own pair of chopsticks. We must develop an environmentally friendly attitude. Awareness. "
These seemingly trivial things can become the trigger for countless quarrels and even breakups. You always blame your girlfriend for getting angry over unnecessary little things, but if she has emphasized it many times and you still can't remember it, it's no wonder. These things may seem trivial, but when it comes to the big picture, it means that you don't take her to heart, and you even have different views on her. Such boys make girls feel very insecure.
4. Reply to her messages in a timely manner
Modern people basically rely on WeChat to communicate with each other and respond to messages in a timely manner. It becomes an important criterion to test whether the other party cares about you. How important is it?
If he didn’t reply for 3 minutes, he might be busy.
If he didn’t reply for 30 minutes, what on earth did he do?
If he didn’t reply for 3 hours, is he lost?
Most girls are very worried. She is sensitive, so when she doesn't get a reply, she tends to think a lot, which makes her feel very insecure.
Therefore, the best way to give her a sense of security is to reply in time. If something is really wrong, it is not difficult to explain it when you see it, right?
In fact, many times, boys do the same There is no last resort, such as working overtime suddenly or something unexpected happens. This is human nature. But when you can’t do it, don’t make random promises, or get vaccinated in advance, for example:
“My dear, it’s been a long time since I went out with you. Didn’t you say you wanted to go to Hainan before? ?I will take annual leave after the project is completed, and then I will accompany you to have a good time, okay? But now we are still doing the finishing work, and we are not sure when it will be completed. It is estimated that it will be within these two weeks. "Wait a minute."
You see, you are busy with business, and you want to accompany her as soon as you finish your work, remembering what she said, which already makes her very happy. At the same time, you also told her the actual situation, which shows that you are very reliable. If she really likes you, she will definitely understand.
