Girls who are slow to warm up are ideal love partners for many boys. However, it is not so easy to chase this kind of girls. If you don’t understand their personality characteristics first, it is easy to hit a wall at every turn. What kind of personality characteristics do slow-warming girls have?
1. The personality of slow-warming girls Characteristics
1. Introversion
The reason why some girls are slow to become popular is because of their own personality problems. Just because they are introverted, they don’t know how to communicate with you and speak. The sound is high-pitched and has little fluctuation, giving people a very slow feeling.
2. Single feelings
Some girls may be slow to warm up because they have never been in love, or even have little contact with boys. When encountering this situation, they don’t know No matter how you do it, the response will be slower.
3. Emotional shadow
Some girls may be hurt by love before, so now they are still feeling cold. Before they get out of the shadow, they see the boy’s face. The pursuit is all about holding up a banner "Men and dogs are not allowed!"
Of course, in addition to girls who are naturally slow-tempered, there is also a type of girl who usually uses slow-warming to politely reject the boy who pursues her, so when chasing her Before you return such a girl, you must first distinguish whether she is really slow to get along with you or whether she is indifferent to you. So how to tell specifically?
2. How to tell whether a girl is really slow or fake
You can insist on taking the initiative to chat with her for half a month. If her attitude towards you has always been indifferent and cold, it means that she has no feelings for you. If her attitude towards you changes, If there is a slight improvement, it means it is slowly warming up.
It can also be seen from daily dating. If she can't make an appointment even once, it definitely means that she has no interest in you. If she is slow to get along, she may not be able to make an appointment occasionally, but there will always be a time when she does. Slow-warming girls behave very calmly when it comes to boys' pursuit, but they are very happy inside but will not show it. What you have done for her, in fact, she knows better than anyone else. Your persistence will slowly warm her up. But a girl who has no feelings for you is like a stone that you can't warm up, cold and hard. So, if it's slow, please persist, one day you will impress her; if it's not, please give up, because no matter how long you persist, you won't be able to catch her.
3. How to chase a slow girl
In the relationship between the sexes, girls are reserved and passive. If Coupled with a slow-warming personality, it gives people the impression that she is an iceberg, and strangers are not allowed to enter. If you chase a girl like this, you will feel that you have no way to start.How should you pursue a slow-warming girl?
1. Build trust and don’t be too impatient
You must not be too anxious when pursuing a slow-warming girl. First, don’t be anxious when expressing love. , a slow-warming girl will not only not have a good impression of your sudden love, but may also make her have a bad impression of you; and don’t be anxious to express your love, because for a slow-warming girl, you can only express your love in a hurry. One result is rejection. The correct approach is to build trust with the girl during her "slow warm-up period" and then demonstrate high value.
For a slow-burning girl, the attraction value you have to pay is by no means less than that of ordinary girls. On the contrary, because of the slow-burning girl, the attraction value you have to pay is not only more, but also continuous. In other words, you have to show your attraction in front of her from time to time to ensure that you can attract her.
Most slow-warming girls are introverted, traditional, and rational, and they are more sensitive than ordinary girls. So when facing such girls, if you show high material value, even if it is inappropriate, they will think you are showing off. Instead of showing her what a great car you have, tell her what you understand about car culture; Instead of showing how often you travel domestically and abroad, why not talk about the gifts you carefully choose for your mother every time you travel.
Slow-warming girls, although they like aloof male gods, can only fantasize about it. After all, neither of them like active people, so it is difficult for them to get together. At this time, it is He needs to be warmer and melt her heart a little bit.
2. Create environments and scenes and use routines with caution
Slow-warming girls lack a sense of security. You It's hard to trick her, she will just think you are hypocritical and not sincere to her. At this time, don’t use emoticons, play hard to get, deliberately be cold, make the other party jealous, etc. Maybe other types of girls will pay more attention to you because of this, but slow-warming girls will think you are very carefree. , or she is playing tricks on her, giving up easily and never talking to you again. Therefore, at this time, sincerity can touch her heart the most. Helping her resolve embarrassment in public, helping her out in emergencies, giving her an umbrella when it rains, well-prepared birthday gifts, grieving with her when she is sad, comforting her, etc. will all make her like you more.
When you have been dating for a while, one month, two months, or three months, when she begins to slowly accept you, at this time, you might as well create more unique environments and relationships. scene. For example: go traveling together, drink together, go to a private room to sing together until late, etc.
In short, try to create such an environment, so that the two of you can be in it, and then the subtle relationship will be revealed.
3. When the time comes, necessary rudeness is the magic weapon to win
As a slow-warming womanSaid, in fact, when you interact, even if it is very frequent and very close, she will not be very active or proactive, or you will not notice any enthusiasm and impulse in her at all. Therefore, men must understand that when the heat is up, , when the time comes, then necessary rudeness is the magic weapon to achieve final victory.
Maybe she is also looking forward to it...
