I had a good chat with a girl and even went on a date. I felt like I was about to chase her. Suddenly one day, I don’t know what happened. This girl seemed to have changed. Her attitude towards you changed from enthusiastic to cold.
In this case, many boys will feel that they are going to lose this girl, so they will do a series of things to pursue her, which will directly cause her to close her heart to you.
So why did a girl who clearly felt like she was about to catch up suddenly run away?
< strong> 1. You have not mastered the rhythm of chasing girls
Many times, if the girl you are chasing suddenly runs away, it may be because you are too enthusiastic and progress too fast, which makes her feel insecure. In this case they will retreat.
On the contrary, if you have been slow and did not upgrade the relationship when it was time to upgrade, and the progress is too slow, in this case they will think that you are too old-fashioned, and they may not like you that much at all. she.
The time to express your love is wrong. It is either too early or too late. Either too early or too late may fail.
When you haven’t established enough attraction, don’t attack girls, especially don’t confess. When a girl is interested in you in the early stage, what she wants is to know more about you before she takes action. Next steps.
But once you confess your love early and reveal your need, in the eyes of girls, you may have lost the mystery of a man.
In the early stages, if you want to let her know that you like her, you can hint her through some words and actions, and express your affection for her in a roundabout way. There is no need to confess at all.
Another situation is when a girl has already hinted to you that she lacks a boyfriend, but you are coy and don’t make it clear. As time goes by, she begins to suspect that you don’t like her, and you just love her. The scumbag you flirt with, or you don't have the ability to lead a relationship between men and women, will lose interest in you.
So the correct approach is to do the right thing at the right time. When a girl hints at you through a series of actions and words, you must seize the time to express your feelings quickly.
2. A man with a beard appeared halfway
Chasing a girl, I saw Just shy of the finishing touch, she suddenly ran away. If you're sure you didn't do anything to hurt her or say anything inappropriate, then the problem isn't on you at all, it's on her.
It may be that Cheng Yaojin was killed halfway, and a man who was better than you took an offensive against her.
Maybe while she is having an affair with you, she alsoWeighing up whether you or another man is more suitable for her. Once that man takes the offensive one step ahead of you, you will lose.
There is also a situation where her ex. Think back to whether she has told you about her ex, and whether she is still obsessed with her ex. If her ex comes back to look for her, you will only be the loser.
3. She suddenly discovered your ugliness
I remember seeing it before A hot search on Weibo: Under what circumstances does a girl suddenly not like that boy? The top post is:
The sunset was all red that day. I passed by the basketball court that I had longed for, and finally saw the handsome senior who had longed to play basketball. Then I suddenly saw...him digging his butthole with his hand...and suddenly I didn't like it.
The affectionate and ambiguous period was suddenly interrupted. Maybe you said something you shouldn’t have said or done something you shouldn’t have done. As the saying goes, "It takes time to see a person's heart." After getting along for a long time, some of your bad aspects will be exposed.
For example, if you spit everywhere, and she hates uncivilized boys the most; if you yell at a service staff, this looks like a hooligan to her.
