Isn’t there a saying? The test of a man’s love is whether he is willing to spend money on girls. Therefore, many boys can’t help but be nice to a girl if they like her. They give her red envelopes on holidays, red envelopes on girls’ birthdays, and I heard girls say that money is tight recently and they give red envelopes... However, if you think this is enough, the girl won’t take it at all. Red envelope. So what should I do if I give a red envelope to a girl and refuse to accept it? What can I do to make the girl accept it?
1. Analysis The psychological factors why girls don’t accept red envelopes
If girls don’t accept red envelopes, you have to analyze the psychology of girls based on your specific prerequisites for sending red envelopes. There are mainly the following situations:
1. If you don’t accept red envelopes when given out, more than 70% of them want to keep a distance from you.
2. When you go out to spend money and a girl pays, but you give her a red envelope and she doesn’t accept it, then she really regards you as one of her own.
3. On special holidays, Valentine’s Day, birthdays, if you don’t receive red envelopes, the degree of alienation will definitely reach more than 80%.
4. If there is conflict in the relationship between men and women, it is serious and needs to be coaxed.
5. Girls are more self-respecting and self-respecting. They feel that accepting red envelopes is a shortcoming. Such girls who do not accept red envelopes are good girls, but they are not your good ones. girl.
2. Stop harassment
I found a very weird problem, most of them Boys chatting with girls are all to annoy her, such as: I want to train her to chat, I want to date her, I want to have sex with her... These are all what you think, do you have half a dime to do with the girl? Therefore, If you give a girl a red envelope and she doesn't accept it, it means she wants to keep a distance from you, so you need to stop harassing her. Even if you want to chase a girl, you have to know in advance what she is thinking about and what she is willing to do. Only then can you truly love her.
3. Stop kneeling and licking
There are also many brothers who obey girls’ orders and give them red envelopes at every turn. Lower your own net worth, have absolutely no moral bottom line and standards for women, and make yourself have no tolerance for boys. The consequences are unknown. It is either a spare tire or an abandonment. Please use your brain to think about whether girls will like nanny-style boys. Want to be a boyfriend? What a woman needs is a boy who can attract her and control her, who can give her a sense of belonging and a shoulder to lean on.
Of course, if you go out to eat and you ask the girl to pay due to some irresistible factors, and you give the girl a red envelope and she doesn’t accept it after you get home, there are two situations. One is that the girl thinks it doesn't matter and doesn't care about it at all; the other is that you invited a girl before,Then she plans to invite you back this time, so she won’t accept the red envelope. If it is the first situation, then there is no chance. If it is the second situation, it means that the girl cares more about your opinion of her and pays attention to her image in front of you. There is a great chance that she will go further.
