1. Why do women cheat mentally?
When a woman cheats mentally, the man himself is also responsible.
Nowadays, many couples and lovers have the situation that after a long period of daily interaction, they have no passion, and they lack mutual understanding and care for each other. The so-called three-year pain and seven-year itch are nothing more than this.
Women are not machines. A strong woman also needs someone to fill her emotional space. If you, as her husband or boyfriend, do not provide her with the emotional needs she desires and do not bring her what a man should give her, there will inevitably be a void in her heart, and sooner or later this void will be filled by someone else.
If a man happens to appear at this time who can keep her in a good mood, be willing to release a man's unique warmth to her, and even take care of her in life, this man will be interested in him. Yan is undoubtedly an angelic existence.
This man is a person who understands her and is considerate of her. He is a harbor for her spirit, so it is strange that she does not fall in love with him.
2. Can a woman be forgiven if she cheats mentally?
When a woman cheats, even if it is just mentally, Can we still trust her? Most importantly, is she worthy of forgiveness? Can we accept him again?
The answers to these questions can all be summed up in one question: just whether she will do it for her. I regret my actions!
If a woman cheats physically, she will regret it a lot, but if she cheats mentally, few will regret it.
Why?
Relationships between men and women mean two things, one is responsibility and the other is transaction.
The role of husband is exactly the expression of a man’s sense of responsibility after having a relationship with a woman.
Physical infidelity involves using money and other means as a price in exchange for the body and the pursuit of excitement and freshness.
However, this kind of responsibility and transaction are not mutually exclusive. If a woman has been cheating for a long time and becomes more and more involved, it will become unclear whether the relationship between her and the person she cheated on is responsibility or transaction. .
At this time, she either completely treats the cheating partner as a plaything, but isn’t such a woman terrible?
Or she gradually shares her sense of responsibility with a third party. .
But if a woman’s original intention is just to pursue excitement and freshness, she is actually very unwilling to take this responsibility, especially There was no emotional crisis with her first wife.
Again, a woman’s heart is small. Sharing responsibilities with the mistress, an “outsider”, means that she will have to pay less attention to her husband, children, and family.court responsibility.
The cost of getting yourself into this situation in pursuit of temporary excitement is a bit too high.
Therefore, some women may fall into moral dilemmas and feel guilty after physical infidelity. In addition, many mistresses who establish relationships with women purely through their bodies lack connotation and are just to obtain material things from her. After feeling guilty and seeing clearly how shallow and ugly the mistress is, regret is inevitable.
But a woman who cheats has basically no moral dilemma!
In fact, we already know from the previous analysis that people who cheat have a very serious sense of luck. Second, there is indeed something about the third party that he wants to rely on, which satisfies her emotional needs.
Therefore, few of them will realize that they are making a mistake, which leads to the fact that women can easily forgive themselves after having an affair.
You have forgiven yourself, where does the regret come from?
Of course, if you can do it in time Provide her with warmth, give her what she wants from a man as a woman, and make her aware of her sense of responsibility, then it is not impossible for her to regret her actions.
Then this requires you. After discovering that a woman has cheated on her mentally, you must not hold on to the idea that as long as the body is not cheating, everything will be OK. Pretend that nothing has happened and let nature take its course. This just makes the woman think that you are weak and can be fooled at will, which will make her even more unscrupulous.
Don’t think that since the matter is so serious, you can just let it all go, I’ll show it off with her, and then make a big fuss. This will only intensify the conflict and make her dislike you even more. She only cares about the good of the third party. In this way, he will be less likely to regret it, and you may not even be able to get together and break up.
