Aloof girls have always had an unspeakable attraction to boys. However, such girls are difficult to pursue because of their personality. This also leads to many boys who only give blindly when chasing aloof girls. In the end, chasing becomes a spare tire. Today, the editor will bring you a must-have love skill for chasing a cool girl: play hard to get.
When chatting with aloof girls, they will definitely talk very little, so it is difficult for us to understand her and establish attraction through chatting alone, so it is necessary to play hard to get. So how to do it specifically?
1. Hide your needs and desires for girls
Specifically Even when a cold girl is not interested in you, the first thing to do is to hide your needs and desires for her!
Treat her as a genderless friend, neither arrogant nor humble. Sometimes you even have to deliberately express that she is a good person, but you don't mean much to her, don't get me wrong. Then you go step by step, avoid being impatient, seize the opportunity when you have the opportunity, create opportunities when there is no opportunity, and if there is no opportunity, you can only save your strength and wait for the opportunity!
2. Make girls want to know you.
When this aloof girl knows that you are not approaching him with a strong purpose, she has initially eliminated the girl's wary of you. Next, you need to make her want to know you. When the aloof woman is willing to chat with you, it is the most critical step in "play hard to get".
There are several key points when chatting with aloof girls that everyone must know, namely: getting to know girls, catering to girls, and letting girls fuck you until they are interesting.
Only by getting to know a girl and knowing her interests and hobbies can you find a topic and start a chat. Here you can learn some basic information about her through the girl’s circle of friends, which can effectively avoid not knowing what to talk about or checking her household registration. question.
When talking about catering to girls here, it does not mean that you should be a "licking dog" for girls, but that you should stand from the perspective of a girl, talk about some topics that interest her, and express your understanding and agreement with what the girl says, but you must not Lose your position during the chat.
Next, you can use the trick of trying to catch the enemy to make girls get used to it and become dependent on you. Of course, the habit and dependence here are not achieved by asking for help or showing kindness every day, but by guiding her to do some things on her own initiative.
Because no matter what you have done, a girl may forget it, but if you let a girl do something she is interested in, she will always remember it. Share some small things in life with her every day and guide her to do the same. You share, for example
Take her to play games every day, give her a head to protect her, and when she encounters difficulties as soon as possible and properlyHelp her solve it. As time goes by, when she encounters something interesting, the first thing she thinks of is to share it with you. When she plays games with others, she thinks that it would be more fun to play with you. When she encounters difficulties, she will think of you first. .
Such habits and dependence will lead to mood swings when "indulging" later.
In the end, it is to constantly improve your own value. You must know that "play hard to get" is just a technique and routine. If you want a long-lasting relationship, Mutual attraction is needed.
Your own value and charm are not enough. Even if you are with a girl, you will encounter various problems. Love is never about me being nice to you, but requires mutual appreciation and Maintained by personal charm.
First of all, you must dress yourself up in appearance. Boys don’t have to be handsome, but they must be clean and tidy and be a handsome man.
In fact, there must be an item that you are particularly good at, such as being good at studying, singing, dancing, or even playing basketball. This is a point that attracts girls.
Another thing is to cultivate the character traits that aloof girls like: maturity, humor, thoughtfulness, and motivation. Only when a girl feels the core needs she wants in you (security, vanity, care and love, etc.) can her favorability towards you soar.
Another thing is that when you are "cooling", you must be sure to control the size and deliberately ignore her for a few days. When a girl takes the initiative to find you, don't be too cold, as this will easily make the girl feel that you are not interested in her. If she gave up without interest, then the gain would outweigh the loss.
