There are actually steps for boys to follow when chasing girls. If you want to catch the girl you like, you need to follow the steps step by step. Many boys cannot catch girls because they skip some key steps. So what are the correct steps for a boy to pursue a girl?
1. Keep the interaction balanced
If a girl only replies to you with the word 3, you should not send long paragraphs Send her a text; if a girl takes an hour to reply to you, don’t reply to her right away; if a girl’s response to chatting is very cold, don’t be overly enthusiastic and maintain a basic balance of interaction.
If your interaction is very unbalanced and you react more than the woman, it means that you are less valuable than the woman and you desire the other person more. Remember, the more desire you show, the less valuable a woman will think you are.
2. Show attraction
Many brothers have a misunderstanding in chatting, thinking that as long as they are nice to a girl and impress her with their sincerity, she will eventually accept. In fact, what can make girls like you is the value you convey. Just like a girl with ordinary conditions who can't arouse your interest, but the other party suddenly sends a set of photos with a good figure, and you instantly become interested again. The reason is that you feel the value of the other person and feel the attraction.
The same is true for attracting girls. Asking questions and flattering cannot make girls like you. If you want girls to like you, you need to show your shining points and learn to package yourself. Your rich and colorful life is a value, being fond of sports and fitness is also a value, being talented and proficient in literature, history and philosophy is also a value. You must learn to pass on your own shining points to girls.
3. Warm up the relationship
Many boys have a misunderstanding that they must first confess their love successfully to get a girl. Only by agreeing can you warm up the relationship with the other person. In fact, the more you express your feelings without heating up the relationship, the faster things will go wrong. As a boy, you must learn to lead girls and learn to identify girls’ interest indicators. Don't wait for the girl's approval. If the girl is unwilling or too quick, she will give you feedback. Therefore, we must learn to warm up the relationship instead of confessing.
The principle of warming up a relationship is to heat up the relationship when the girl is in a good mood, and never heat up the relationship when the girl is in a bad mood. We must start with a low-scale heating step by step and avoid leapfrogging the temperature. For example, you can't call a girl "honey" when you first meet her.
The route of warming up: strangers < ordinary friends < ambiguous < flirting < boyfriend and girlfriend
If you can’t grasp the scale of warming up, you can imagine what you said at this time , is it applicable to the current stage of your relationship. For specific heating methods and cases, friends who are interested in knowing more can add Chat privately and I will tell you anytime.
4. Monetize invitations
Any chat that is not for the purpose of invitation is worthless, love Relationships must be implemented in reality. When we chat with girls, we are definitely not just for small talk. After the relationship heats up to the ambiguous stage, you can consider cashing in on the invitation. You can use vague invitations during chat to test a girl’s interest in dating.
For example, a friend has just opened a barbecue restaurant, and it tastes very good. If he has time, he can take you to try it. If a girl shows interest, she can further confirm the logistics information and then make the invitation more concrete. For example, when are you free? After negotiating the corresponding time and location, the invitation is finalized.
