When you meet the girl you like on a blind date, the blind date process is relatively harmonious. After the blind date is over and you go home, you definitely need to strike while the iron is hot to further build a closer relationship. So how should you talk after you go home from the blind date?<br/ >
What do you talk about after going home from a blind date?
1. Simple greetings
The two of you are still relatively unfamiliar with each other in the early stage of the blind date. After the blind date, you can ask the girl, "Are you home? I feel relieved when you are home." and give a simple greeting. At this time, do not continue to chat with the girl in depth. , you can find a reason to retreat first.
This approach is to prevent girls from chatting with you while they are busy with their own affairs. So when is the appropriate time to chat with girls? Since we have added the other party’s WeChat, we can observe the girl’s circle of friends Chat with her dynamically. When a girl has time to post in her Moments, it means she is still free. You can chat with girls based on the content of her Moments. If the girl doesn’t send any updates, you can chat with the girl after dinner (7-8 o’clock).
2. Start the topic with interesting things in life
On the second day after the blind date, we talked about the girls There is still little understanding. Due to lack of understanding, when chatting, you may not find a suitable topic to talk to a girl, so you start with "What are you doing" and then enter the awkward chat mode of asking and answering.
Therefore, we don’t need to start with words, but use short videos to share interesting things around us to start the topic. This is a more topical and interesting opening, which seems novel and better than asking a girl. "What are you doing" attracts her more and makes her more willing to reply.
3. Learn to interrupt the chat
The purpose of our chat is to establish attraction. When she has a good attitude and high mood during the chat, it means that the attraction has been established. When she is chatting happily, When the time comes to end the conversation, the girl will have the urge to continue chatting with you, paving the way for the next chat or invitation. Play hard to get! Let her fall in love with you inadvertently during the small fluctuations in her heart.
How to ask her out after the blind date?
1. Determine when she is interested in you< /p>
After the blind date, if we want to initiate another invitation, while we are interested in her, we must also judge whether she is interested in us and whether she is satisfied with this blind date. At this time, We can use teasing and pets to judge, for example:
I feel like you are quite shy today
I didn’t expect that you also like puppies
You and It’s different from what I imagined
Think of people you’ve talked to or met on a blind dateAs a starting point, if the girl is satisfied with this blind date meeting, it can be judged by the number of words and the speed of her reply.
2. Create a relaxed chat atmosphere and invite girls
After we are sure that she is interested in us, And after we get acquainted with each other, we can promptly invite the next meeting when the chatting atmosphere is good.
However, a girl’s favor will not always exist and will gradually fade over time. Therefore, you must seize the opportunity of each meeting, grasp the girl’s favor in the chat, and determine the second time. The place of rendezvous.
There is no need to choose a coffee shop or a Western restaurant for the second date. Choosing some highly interactive occasions can promote the development of the relationship between the two. Such as playgrounds, catching dolls, short trips, outdoor barbecues, etc.
