Many boys may give out red envelopes when chasing girls. In fact, it does not mean that boys want to use red envelopes to impress girls, but that on some special days, they feel that other girls have received red envelopes, but they do not send them when chasing girls. Red envelopes seem insincere, so I send them as a token of appreciation. So the question is, how much is appropriate to give red envelopes to girls who are not girlfriends? More hair or less hair?
1. Send an amount that you don’t feel bad about
In fact, there is no problem in sending red envelopes to girls. The key is whether sending red envelopes can promote your relationship. Otherwise, it is better not to do so. hair. And since the girl is not your girlfriend yet, it is hard to say whether you will be able to establish a relationship in the future (even if it is a romantic relationship, there is a possibility of breaking up), so it is best to send an amount of red envelopes that you do not feel distressed about, even if you are married and not successful. It doesn't hurt either. For example:
When you encounter 520 while chasing a girl, just to cope with the situation, just send the girl a 52 red envelope. Why do you say that? Don't give out so many red envelopes when you first start chasing a girl, because your relationship is still very shallow and it's easy for you to fail. You won't be able to get the money back by then. 52 is the most suitable. Even if it's gone, it's gone. Don't feel bad. , if you send too many good girls, they won’t accept them. The girls who do accept you are a bit greedy for money. How dare you accept so much after only a short time of knowing each other? Of course, if you send 5.20 or 0.52, it seems too little, and girls may despise it and just pass it.
2. Be particular about the numbers when sending red envelopes
In fact, there are particular numbers when giving out red envelopes to girls, such as 1314, 520, 2013.14, 188, etc. Don’t It is better to send a girl a 200 red envelope or ten 13.14 than to send 200 directly. Or send several 13.14s in succession, and finally send one 134.4. The same amount of red envelopes will give girls very different feelings when you send them out.
You can also create a small surprise for girls by sending red envelopes. For example, give out a hundred one-cent ones, with two or three big ones in between. Wait until she doesn't want to order the ones she ordered, and the refund will be given to you the next day. You can show it to her in front of her, lament the pity, and then try again. Prepare small items for more fun...
3. Choose according to your own financial strength
There are really too many festivals, large and small, such as Valentine's Day, Lantern Festival, Goddess Day, Labor Day, 618 Carnival (we ask you to clear your shopping cart for the first half of the year), girls’ birthdays, Dragon Boat Festival, Chinese Valentine’s Day, Mid-Autumn Festival, National Day, Halloween, Double Eleven (we ask you to clear your shopping cart for the second half of the year), Christmas Eve, New Year's Day, Christmas... If you have to give out red envelopes on every holiday, it will be a big expense.
This is just the money for giving red envelopes, as well as daily dates with girls, buying gifts for girls, etc. Therefore, the appropriate amount of red envelopes for girls must be determined by boys based on their own financial strength. If possible, give more. Just ask for less conditions, keep talking if you can accept it financially and psychologically, tell the truth if you feel you can't afford it, and do what you can.
