When many boys are chasing girls, they only have one trick, which is to be nice to girls without thinking. In order to please girls, they will take girls to eat the most expensive steaks and drink Lafite worth tens of thousands of dollars. Or give girls the most romantic gift.
But in the end, a girl will not like him because the steak is delicious, let alone become his girlfriend because the Lafite tastes good. Because these behaviors of chasing her will not cause emotional fluctuations in girls.
If you want to make a girl feel emotional and have a good impression of you, you need to be a little bit bad. As the saying goes: "If a man is not bad, a woman will not love you." When chasing a girl, being appropriately bad can make a difference. An unexpected effect. So what are the tricks bad men use to chase girls?
1. Unpredictability
Most of them When girls meet boys, those boys’ routines remain unchanged for ten years.
For example, go shopping, watch movies, eat together, etc.
There are many boys who clock in girls on time every day. For example, asking girls: "What are you doing" or "How was work today?"
These are very bad, because you give the other party a predictable behavior pattern, and girls will not be interested in these things. interest.
Many times, you need to contact the other party through some unpredictable behaviors.
There are no rules, and even the content of your date is different from what she has done in the past.
For example, the choice of date location is no longer a big shopping mall, but an IKEA or an art museum, etc.
There is no need to spend money at IKEA. From the time you enter to the time you come out, you can play there for two or three hours, and you will have a lot of topics to talk about and things to interact with here.
For one scene in each area, you can simulate the situation: "Hey, wife, come over and take a look at this object." At this time, the girl will blush slightly and scold you: "Why do you call me wife... .."etc.
Or if you see a pillow and you hit her lightly with the pillow, she will hit you with the pillow as well. At this point, you can form a relatively good interaction.
Girls who have never been exposed to this type of routine will be very interested in such boys.
2. No interest indicator
When we are interacting with girls, we need to maintain two states at the same time , and these two states are opposite.
One is interested, which means that you are very interested in girls and will show some need for girls, such as wanting to ask her out, etc.
The second type is that you are not interested and have no need for girls. Date a girlWhen you go out, it doesn't matter if the girls come or not, and you won't be disappointed if the girls don't come.
When we make good use of these two states, girls will become curious about you.
So what should be done specifically?
(1) "Absent-mindedness" is better than "excessive attention"
Most brothers, in the process of pursuing girls, He will pay too much attention to the girl he likes, and may even refuse the arrangement that he has made with his family because of the girl's uncertain invitation.
This is what we call excessive demand, and this approach is wrong.
The real way of communicating with girls is "absent-minded". Absent-mindedness here does not mean that you don't care about what girls say, but it means not to pay too much attention to girls.
If you are occasionally attracted by other things, it will make girls feel very unhappy.
At this time, girls will try to win your attention, which is helpful for your love.
(2) Excessive patience will reduce your value in the hearts of girls
What is very wrong with most men is that they have no patience at all for their relatives, but instead treat those who are very beautiful. The little girl is very patient. She is picked up and dropped off by car. It doesn’t matter how late the girl is.
In fact, this is a low-value behavior in itself. You don’t have your own framework and standards.
This will make girls think that you are a spare tire that can be used at will. When you are not needed, you are the most redundant one.
Therefore, in the process of communication, we should not care too much about the other party's approval, but this will be more helpful to you and not be very passive.
3. Challenging
If a man does not have his own character and follows what others say, then he is He is similar to passerby A. 95% of girls will not like him.
Girls prefer charismatic men who are challenging, have the ability to think independently, and are adventurous.
In the subconscious mind of girls, such men are very advantageous, because in the long run, they will have better living conditions and advantages than other men.
If a girl tells you "you are a good person", then her subconscious means that you have no other value except "good".
To attract girls, we need value, not so-called "good", let alone promoting ourselves.
