It is said that the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend is actually established naturally. However, many girls are insecure or have been hurt in relationships before, so they will ask for a ritual to confirm the relationship, so that it seems formal after all. Only then will she feel at ease. How do boyfriend and girlfriend confirm their relationship? It is most natural to succeed when things come naturally
1. Confirm the relationship through a question-and-answer process
Before male and female friends confirm the relationship, they can use a question-and-answer form to confirm the relationship, such as:
Are we together? -Okay
-Can you be my girlfriend? -Okay
-Are we boyfriend and girlfriend now? -Of course
Similar to this, the example is too blunt, but anyway, there must be such a process. Otherwise, sometimes a girl is having an affair with you. You say you like her, and she also says she likes you. You think you are already in a relationship, but you never thought that the girl might just be having an affair with you, because there is no process of establishing a relationship between you. . Your relationship is vague from beginning to end, and you can't blame her at all, because everyone's understanding of relationship confirmation is different. Maybe she thinks in her heart that she can hold hands and hug someone she's interested in, but you think you can only do it with your girlfriend.
2. Confession and Confirmation of Relationship
We all say that we should not confess to a girl rashly, but if you are sure that a girl has a crush on you, then confession is almost guaranteed, and you can The relationship is established through confession. Speaking of which, I thought of a case:
A girl told me a story about her online dating. They met on the Internet and chatted well online. So, they ran away, and when they met, they realized they were fellow villagers, and their relationship gradually warmed up.
One day they wanted to make an appointment to climb a mountain together. When they were almost climbing to the top of the mountain, the girl asked the boy, "Am I your girlfriend?" The boy smiled and said, of course, my dear girlfriend. What are you thinking about in your little head? The girl hesitated, but... still couldn't raise her doubts.
I asked this girl, did you get together without confessing your love? The girl said yes, I would be happier if he could confess his love. I asked her, have you ever asked him why he didn't confess? She lowered her head, and he said that the confession was just to establish the relationship. Since the relationship had been established, there was no need to confess.
It can be seen that this girl is a little sad. I believe everyone who is smart can see this. What is sad about this girl? This boy doesn't pay attention to confession and thinks that confession is just a formality in the relationship. Although a confession doesn't need to be earth-shattering, canceling it outright would be too much.
Confession is a ritual of love, you can simply confess. walk slowlyEnter her, get closer, get closer, and whisper in her ear: Will you be my girlfriend? Instead of arrogantly banging her against the wall as soon as he came up, loudly, needless to say, you are my girlfriend.
3. Confirm the relationship when it comes naturally
In fact, many times when two people are together, it is more appropriate if it comes naturally. What is a matter of course?
It is possible that when two people get along together, one person’s words are the next.
It may be a certain action of someone when two people get along together.
It may be a certain look in someone’s eyes when two people get along together.
This is possible!
For example, when eating, peel crayfish for each other. Pick up vegetables for the other party and feed her meat!
(ps: Girls are always clamoring to lose weight, don’t believe her lies... Girls can’t get rid of their foodie nature??? It’s not possible! Just clamp it and that’s it! Feed it and that’s it! )
For example, when crossing the road, hold the other person’s hand or hold the other person’s shoulder. Hold the other person and make them feel safe.
For example, when chatting, a sudden dirty joke makes the other party blush and laugh.
For example, when playing around, a simple bottle of mineral water...
These may be the moments to confirm the relationship! But these are all based on:
"You two are already very familiar with each other, and there is just a little bit of intention to establish a relationship." Based on this premise, these things can be done. Otherwise, if the relationship is normal, you will easily get beaten if you do this...
