Ambiguity does not mean liking, it may also mean that the other person just wants to play with you. So when you enter an ambiguous period with a girl, don’t be so naive as to think that you are about to catch her. What would a girl in the ambiguous period do if she just wants to play with you?
1. Consumed
When you express your affection for a girl and she remains the same, as if she doesn’t understand, then maybe she doesn’t understand but is just pretending not to understand.
Who wouldn’t understand this? Just think about yourself. You like someone very much and chat with her every day. One day she tells you, I really think you are very good and I am very fond of you. Good impression.
Do you think you can still sit still? You wish you could shoot up and pierce the ceiling of your house. Then can you not give the other party any response? You can't calm down at all. Right?
You can’t hide it even if you want to, so if you think about it again, the person opposite you will turn a blind eye to your expression of goodwill. Is this normal?
2. White prostitution
Another situation is that girls appear to be in the middle between turning a blind eye and responding to you.
After you express your good feelings, although she will not respond to you by saying, "Well, I think you are very good," she will at most say thank you and feel touched. That's it, everything is business as usual.
Actually, I think this kind of person is quite disadvantageous. On the one hand, she doesn’t want to be good to you, but on the other hand, she can’t let you go. It’s very likely that there is something about you that is beneficial to her.
Whether it’s bringing her joy, teaching her something, or even what resources you have, it’s possible.
This is a typical free prostitution, do you understand free prostitution?
3. Show your vulnerable side
This is a typical example of someone starting to play tricks on you and start acting. Generally, she can’t do this even if she is not good at acting. There is a certain threshold.
It’s like telling you that I’ll send you a good person card at the beginning, right? Then I’ll give you some fake responses, saying:
“I think you’re very good too. , otherwise I wouldn’t be chatting with you like this day in and day out (inner OS: I’m giving you face, I’m enough to give you face)”
“Actually, I’ve also thought about whether I should give it to you. Confession (inner os: I said it first and then left you speechless)"
"But I am very conflicted. The reason why I am saying these words now is because I am afraid of losing you. I am really conflicted. (Inner OS: I think it’s good to just be ambiguous like this for now)”
Okay, once you feel that, well, what she said makes sense, then why not do this first?How about that?
Then just wait and wait. When she comes back after making a big circle and finds that you seem to be the best, then maybe we can really be together.
But with a person who eats from the bowl and looks at the pot, can you live a steady life? So everyone, let’s face it, if you have always had doubts about an ambiguous relationship and always feel that this layer of window paper cannot be pierced no matter how hard you poke it, then there is something really wrong.
If the other person really wants to be with you, then she will definitely not make you doubtful or uncomfortable.
No matter how dull a person is, she will not respond at all to your first expression of affection.
