Many boys don’t understand girls’ thoughts. They mistake a girl’s reserve for rejection, mistake a girl’s politeness for a girl who is interested in him, and are indifferent to the girl’s hints... Over time, girls can only give up on you, a dead straight guy. , to find a boy who can read her cues. In order to avoid this kind of miss, let me share with you what are the clues that a girl likes you?
1. Insinuations
Sometimes a girl likes a boy but is too embarrassed to say it, so she always becomes the boy’s confidant and food friend, and is there whenever he calls. And what about boys? I didn't know if the girl liked me, so I kept pretending to be friends. In the end, everyone thought that the two of them were together (after all, they could meet up for dinner and have fun chatting at any time). In fact, the two of them had never been together. I mean it sincerely, but I always lose to the method and the courage to face it head-on. I can only say that making innuendo is not a good method. It's okay to be an auxiliary, but forget about the main attack. In most cases, the parties involved have no idea, let alone the efforts behind the scenes.
2. Implication type
Most of them fall into this category. Many people have experienced a boy accompanying a girl downstairs in the dormitory. After the two said goodbye, they could still stand there quietly for a while. There was silence. In fact, the girl was reluctant to leave and hoped to show more expressions to the boy. ...but most of the boys keep stretching like this because they are brave or have no reaction at all.
The kind of awkwardness of walking around the playground N times in college, staying with her without talking, and having nothing to say. People who are not willing to leave early are all willing to stay with her for a while.
The girl called him one day and said that she was very lonely and hoped that he could chat with her. As a result, she was taught that "people should learn to be independent."
There was another person The girl once said that her water pipe was broken in the middle of the night and hoped that the boy could help her. As a result, the boy called her a plumber and recommended that this plumber was very good and his fees were reasonable.
3. Straight balls
There are many people who think that straight balls are obvious, such as two people in winter When you go out to eat, a girl says you are cold and looks at you quietly, expecting you to take off your clothes and put them on her like a gentleman (I later learned that some girls do this because they smell like you on their clothes. Next time She said that when she returned your clothes, she was setting the stage for seeing you again), or she hoped that you would be wise enough to hold her hands or grab them together and stuff them into your pocket.
There is a clearer one.
A senior sister in my university has had a crush on a junior student for a long time. During the end-of-year student gathering, she had too much dinner and the junior student sent her back to the house she rented off campus. As a result, after entering the house, the senior sister hugged me with the help of alcohol. According to the boy's description later, the senior's lips were less than 10 centimeters away from his at that time, and there was no real kiss.
When he came back, he proudly described, "Look at how determined I am. Most people can't do it. Hahahahahahaha." The two of them never got along again.
In fact, in most cases, boys will become timid in the face of love, while girls will become much braver. Therefore, a large proportion of girls show up, and boys generally follow the steps to get the signal to continue.
4. The opposite sex cannot understand the genre
Some boys have little experience in love and do not understand the style. There is no concept of love, etc., which leads to the inability to understand girls' cues. But sometimes girls’ hints are really difficult for boys to understand. For example, girls dress up carefully before meeting boys, changing their hair and makeup or lipstick color. Although it is said that women want to please their appearance, most straight men really don't know the difference very clearly. As long as girls don't change their overall makeup and hairstyle too much, they are basically the same.
Most boys don’t understand the hints that a girl likes you because they fall into one or more of these cues. Have you fallen into the trap?
