While love brings us sweetness, it also brings us a lot of helplessness. How many people in the world are trapped by love, trapping themselves in the cage of love and unable to get out. It may only take a second to fall in love with someone, but it may take a lifetime to let go of someone. What’s the difference between a man who can’t forget someone and a woman who can’t forget someone?
1. Men are passionate and women are affectionate
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Some people say: Men are passionate and long-lasting, while women are affectionate and unfeeling.
Evolutionary psychology research shows that men naturally like to pursue women and tend to be polygamous. It turns out that men may like many women.
But after a breakup, men are used to living in the past, and it is difficult to forget the woman they loved deeply.
Even if many men can’t let go, they may start a relationship immediately or enter marriage directly.
They want to use this method of escape to temporarily relieve their inner pain, but the results always backfire. Even if they have started a new relationship, it is difficult for him to forget the woman he loved.
When a woman is in a relationship, she will be very infatuated. It may be difficult to forget the person she loved after breaking up.
But the biggest difference from men is that as long as a woman meets the man she loves, gets married and has children, she will slowly devote herself to the family, and she will slowly forget about the people she once loved.
A man’s love exists separately, but a woman’s love is deleted.
2. Love is great and fragile
Regardless of men or women, as long as they have loved someone, they are very fragile. Hard to let go easily.
Some people may have only met once, but have loved them for a lifetime even if they were not together. Even if some people have been in love for many years, they may turn around and leave.
Love is great but also fragile.
In "Titanic", Jack only met Ruth a few times and only knew her for a few days, but in order to save Ruth, he was still willing to sacrifice his life. At the most critical moment, Give Ruth the chance to live.
In "33 Days After Breaking Up", Huang Xiaoxian and her boyfriend have been in love since school, and they have gone through the best times together, but unfortunately they have not reached the end.
Therefore, love is not judged by the length of time.
Don’t worry about who will love you for how long and whether or not to let you go. In fact, your current life is the best.
Some people know each other for two or three days, but remember them for a lifetime. Some people fall in love for two or three years, then turn around and hold someone else's hand. In this world where the journey is long and fast, who will remember you for a few years?
To truly let go of someone is not to pay attention to the other person’s dynamics all the time, nor to live a better life than the other person, nor to make the other person regret it, but to live your own life seriously and always maintain a positive attitude.
Just like what is said in "One Hundred Years of Solitude":
"No matter where you go, you should remember that the past is false, memories are an endless road, and everything in the past is The spring no longer exists, and even the most tenacious and crazy love is, in the final analysis, nothing more than a fleeting reality. ”
