Although a relationship needs to be fought for desperately, you also need to respect yourself and leave some dignity for yourself. After all, relationships are a matter of two people. If it is just a love affair, but the love flow is ruthless, it will definitely not work. Below, the editor has summarized the 6 major signs that girls don’t like you. If there are more than two, just give up.
1. Never take the initiative to contact you
During the pursuit stage, the other party may be out of Reply politely. If you like it, you will definitely contact me. If you never take the initiative, it means you don't like it, at least not currently.
In the ambiguous stage, the other party will never take the initiative to contact you, so there is a high probability that you are a spare tire.
Love stage? If you don’t take the initiative to contact you after falling in love, what are you still thinking about if you don’t break up?
2. Refusal of intimate contact
In the pursuit stage, it is normal to refuse contact, but it is abnormal to have intimate contact later on.
In the ambiguous stage, it is understandable to refuse some excessive contact. After all, you are not officially in love yet, but if you don't want to accept it, you have to consider what the other person wants to do. In the love stage, you realize...
3. Overly polite
This kind of behavior, except in the pursuit stage It is understandable that it would not be appropriate to be overly polite in the other two stages, especially the love stage.
For example, after the spirit and body are combined, I will give you a thank you.
It’s an exaggeration, but that feeling really makes people feel very separate and far away.
4. Don’t reject the overtures of other members of the opposite sex
Whether you can chase or not, you can’t say whether you are green or not. You are a small fry in the other person’s fish pond, so it shouldn’t be wrong. .
5. Not paying attention to image in front of you
This can be divided into two situations, one is the pursuit stage , if the other person has an indifferent attitude every time he appears in front of you, don't think too much, you will most likely be out of luck. After all, who can care less about how they appear to people who have feelings?
The second is the love stage. In the later stages of love, it doesn’t matter anymore. You have seen everything you need to see, and you have treated each other sincerely. It doesn’t matter whether you like her or not. The other person may simply be too lazy to dress up.
6. Not caring about your feelings
There is no need to elaborate on this. At any stage, not caring about your feelings means not loving.
After all, who is willing to let the one he loves suffer?
7. No daily sharing
Some people say that the best way to judge whether a relationship can last is to see whether each other is willing to listen to each other's nonsense.
Actually, this is called the desire to share.
Sharing nonsense such as what you ate today, what you did, what your mood is, what state you are in, etc. are essential things in a relationship.
Therefore, no matter at any stage, if the other person has no desire to share his life with you, there is a high probability that he does not like you.
Finally, I would like to share a story with you. A long time ago, a knight pursued a princess.
The princess told the knight: "No matter rain or shine, as long as you stand under my stairs and wait for me for 100 days, I will be with you."
So the knight remained silent. Guarding, the princess was also moved by his sincerity and prepared to marry him after the 100 days.
But at the end of the 99th day, the knight chose to leave.
The princess was very puzzled and asked him: "I will accept you soon, why did you give up."
The knight said, "The protection for the first 99 days is to prove that I am loyal to you." Your unwavering love, leaving on the last day is for my own dignity.”
The ending of the story is unknown, but I know that even if they are together, such an unequal and undignified love will happen. It won't last long either.
Above, when you are getting along with the other person, when one or more similar behaviors appear, you need to stop and think carefully about whether you want to continue.
