To chase a girl, you must not only be able to chat, but also learn to observe her words, be able to read a girl's mind, and understand when a girl wants to chat and when a girl doesn't want to chat with you. So what will happen if a girl doesn’t want to chat with you?
1. Release the disinterest indicator
If a girl is interested in chatting with you, she will happily chat with you on any topic you choose. You can clearly feel that she is in a good mood from her language.
But if she doesn’t want to chat with you, she will treat your topic negatively in the simplest and roughest way, making you feel like “I’m so tired chatting with her” until you can’t take it anymore. Will actively end the chat. You can hardly feel any emotion from her words. No matter how interesting the topic is, she always looks calm, like an automatic reply from a robot. And the reply speed is also annoyingly slow. Most of the time, it takes more than two minutes to reply to you with one or two words. Just like the following behaviors, they are girls' negative strategies:
She will reply whatever you say, never talk about irrelevant nonsense, avoid extending the topic, and not giving you room to develop. For example, if you say, "The sun is so bright today," a girl who doesn't want to talk to you will just say, "Yeah." If she wants to chat with you, she will add a lot of details to her words, such as: "Yes, the road is so hot that you can fry an egg." Then she may talk to you about her feelings about the weather, Communicate about how to protect yourself from the sun and try to extend the topic as much as possible.
Even if there is something worthy of discussion in the topic, girls will not ask questions, let alone express their own opinions.
2. Push up closed topics
We often encounter girls who chat to death When everyone encounters such a thing, their first thought is how to save the situation and make a living. However, we need to distinguish one thing clearly. If a girl chats to death, is it because she is not very good at chatting, or does she just want to chat to death because she doesn’t want to chat with you? If a girl doesn’t want to chat with you and wants to chat to death on purpose. If you chat to death, she will push your topic up, use a language similar to a summary to lead the topic to a dead end, and turn it into a closed topic.
For example, if you say "I like reading," and a girl is interested in chatting with you, she will ask, "What books do you usually like to read?" "What a coincidence, I also like reading." Here you go. Expand subtopics. If she is not interested, she will say "This is pretty good" to stop you from continuing. So if you guys see girls chatting to death in this way of pushing up, there is no need for you to spend time trying to figure it out.
3. Extreme politeness
Politeness means distance. If you chat with a girl, she will always answer you in a polite manner. This meansIn fact, she is not showing you her ladylike demeanor, she is just giving you a symbolic reply out of politeness, and she does not want to continue chatting with you.
Especially if you talk to her about irrelevant gossip, she is telling you in disguise that "our relationship is not good enough for small talk." For example:
"Hello, little beauty."
"Hello."
"Have you had lunch?"
"Not yet."
"Haha, it's already 12:30, why haven't you eaten yet?"
"Thank you, I'll go later."
4. Language hints
Sometimes girls really don’t want to talk to you, and they will take the initiative to make various subtle hints to you. Tell you it's time to retreat and stop talking. These hints usually come in the form of reminders of time and reminders that you should do something.
For example, if you accidentally chat until 12 o'clock in the night, a girl may suddenly ask you: "Aren't you going to work tomorrow?" or "Aren't you sleepy?" This is definitely not caring about you, and she is afraid that you will be late. Afraid of you staying up late or something, she is just telling you tactfully that I want to talk, so you should go to bed quickly. Another example is when a girl suddenly reminds you while you are chatting: "Didn't you say you were going to pick up a friend at the airport this afternoon?" This is not because she is afraid that you will forget your kind reminder, but because she doesn't want to chat with you and can't find a suitable one. excuse.
