The opening remarks of a WeChat chat are like the first impression of two people when they first meet. If you can have a perfect opening remarks, you can certainly leave a perfect first impression on the other party, and the subsequent communication will naturally be very relaxed and pleasant; If you offend a girl at the beginning, then all your subsequent communication efforts will be in vain.
Due to personality or mentality reasons, many boys, although they particularly want to chat with girls, do not start chatting with girls on WeChat I will feel nervous in my heart, and then I will talk nonsense without going through my brain, and then it will become all kinds of opening remarks that are disgusted by girls. For example:
1. Begging opening statement
"Do you have time tonight? I would like to invite you out for dinner."
Like this The opening remarks are obviously diaosi-style opening remarks, like a beggar begging for girls, giving up all the control to girls, and girls are a kind of creature that hates making decisions.
2. A serious opening statement
"Hello, my name is so-and-so I work somewhere, I’m glad to meet you.”
Although such an opening statement seems very polite, but too polite and serious behavior will put girls away. I feel like it’s hard to get closer to a girl.
3. Overly caring opening statement
"The temperature will drop to below zero tomorrow, dear, please keep warm!"
Although this kind of opening statement seems to care about the girl, the girl is an adult and she can take care of her own life. Moreover, there are always countless caring people around a girl. In the eyes of the girl, your concern is of no value at all.
IV. What I consider to be a humorous opening statement
"On the Internet or with friends If you see a funny joke in the circle, send it to the girl in a long way. "
Such an opening line may seem funny to you and can make the girl laugh, but girls will not understand such a joke at all. Take a quick look and you will see that in her eyes you are just a joke, and if you try to use humor to make women happy, you are also begging girls for low value.
5. Group-sending blessing-style opening remarks
"Similarly, when I see heart-warming sentences on the Internet or in Moments, I send them to my girls in a long way."
Such an opening statement will not get a reply from the girl at all. This is also a sideways concern for the girl.Students, in the past, sending group text messages to girls was a blessing, but now, sending group text messages will make girls think you are old-fashioned.
6. Boring question-style opening statement
"Are you busy? ?I want to chat with you and have a heart-to-heart."
This kind of opening sentence is now a waste. Not only does this kind of opening sentence make girls have no desire to reply, but it will only be blocked by girls if they are repeated too much.
So what should you say in the opening remarks of a WeChat chat to avoid making mistakes and leave a good impression on her? Let’s take a look at the summary of opening remarks that can make girls reply in seconds.
1. Direct opening remarks
Boys: "hi" or "Hello".
Girls: "hi" or "Hello".
Such a simple and direct opening method does not require a sense of need, and there are not so many worries. As long as the girl does not dislike you, she will basically reply to you in seconds.
2. Praise opening remarks
Boys: "Looking at your photos, you look very elegant" or "Looking at your photos, you are so cute"
Girls: "Thank you!" or "Yes? Hehehe."
This way of praising a girl's opening remarks is directly related to the other person. No one wants to hear other people's praise, in a complimentary way. The opening line will make the girl very happy.
3. Expression opening remarks
Boys: "Use a cute Throw cute expressions to each other."
Girls: "Hi or hello!"
Using cute expressions as an opening line can stimulate girls' desire to express themselves. There is no resistance to cute things in the heart. If the girl you flirt with is a cutie, it can further stimulate the girl's desire for expression.
IV. Curiosity opening remarks
Boys: “I found something special about you.”
Girls: “What? What’s special?”
Boy: “You’re a bit cute and cute.”
Everyone has a curiosity to find out, and curiosity can start as soon as it starts. Stimulate the girl's emotions. When the girl's emotions are stimulated, that is when the chat can be started smoothly.
5. Narcissistic opening remarks
Boys: "I think I'm quite handsome, so I want to get to know you."
Girl: "Haha, you are so narcissistic!"
A narcissistic opening will make girls I think you are a bit arrogant. When you see an arrogant person in social circles, you will always want to hurt him. This way of opening remarks can make the girl play and play with you, and enter a state of familiarity with the girl.
6. Opening remarks to demonstrate value
Boy: “I just finished the Monday meeting with the staff and I haven’t eaten yet.”
Girl: "It's so hard for you. What do you do?"
"High-value display opening" can leave a girl with the impression that you are very motivated. If a girl thinks that a boy is very motivated, she will I highly recommend this way of opening remarks to create a good impression unconsciously.
7. WeChat avatar opening remarks
Boy: “The photo of your avatar is so cute.”
Girl: “Really? I like it very much. "
Complimenting through photos can instantly shorten the distance between you and the girl. Although you praise the girl, you do not praise her directly, which will not reveal your strong need.
As mentioned at the beginning, the reason why many brothers find it very difficult to open the door is actually a large part of the reason is your mentality. You always want to use a special opening to attract the attention of girls, but the result is always It's counterproductive. In fact, the opening is just a simple greeting. What's more important is to use chatting skills to make girls like you.
