Question: It’s okay to chat with a girl on a blind date, but my dating experience is mediocre. We’ve dated three times, but she won’t hold her hand. But I can ask her out, and I kind of like her. Should I insist?
What does it mean when girls are not allowed to hold hands?
Answer: Holding hands is not the only basis for judging whether a girl likes you. You know, the intimacy index of holding hands is not generally high, it is better than hugging shoulders. After all, it is a skin-to-skin relationship. You can feel the body temperature and mood of another person. It is normal for you not to feel close to each other.
The following will teach you some other methods to help you determine whether the girl you are dating likes you or not.
1. First look at her age
This little girl under the age of 23 has a blind date, or she has not I have read a few books, and there are some hidden secrets, such as some serious illness or a baby in the belly.
This blind date for a woman over 30 years old is really a matter of chance. After all, her youth has been squandered. If she doesn’t find someone she likes, she can just treat her like a fool.
Girls in this middle age group are more likely to be looking for love. After all, at the age of blooming flowers, they are full of pink fantasies about love.
But she may not necessarily accept the method of blind date. Maybe she is looking forward to a natural encounter, or maybe she is entangled in N relationships. Forced by her parents' strong pressure and pressure to get married, she has to Kiss me.
The best way to solve the problem is to ask directly. If she is not sincerely dating, she will definitely not mind telling you, and you can just smile and settle your grudges.
2. Look at how you chat with her
If the girl you are dating doesn’t like you, when chatting A perfunctory attitude is a must. When you chat with her, she will reply with only a few words, and she often takes a long time to reply to you. You finally wait for her, and just when you want to talk excitedly, she stops talking again.
When you initiate a topic, she will always act like she has to talk to take care of your emotions, and she will not provide you with enough topicality. You will rack your brains but can't continue the conversation.
There is no doubt that I don’t like you. As for why I am still willing to chat with you, you can taste it carefully.
What is more terrifying than this is "pseudo-enthusiasm".
Some girls, if you talk to her, she will chat for a long time. If you don’t talk to her, she will take the initiative to chat with you, pretending to be very fond of you. However, she will not give you a chance to get to know her at all. As soon as you talk about her personal affairs, she will change the subject. She never posts photos related to you in the circle of friends, and she never tells her best friends about you as a person. Even if others ask, she always deliberately evades her. It's obvious that she refuses you to get close to her circle of life, friends, and work.
Then why is she so enthusiastic? When you meet this kind of girl, you should really check if your wallet has been stolen and if she has been having affairs with several boys at the same time.
If a girl really likes you, no matter how hard she lets you go, becomes wary of you, and won't let you hold your hand, she will definitely give you plenty of opportunities to flirt with her.
She will catch you asking questions, and will take the initiative to tell you about herself. She wants to get to know you as quickly as possible, and she also wants you to get to know her as quickly as possible.
She will also deliberately expose her flaws and worries about love. It sounds like she is not active in love, but in fact she desires it very much. She is afraid that you will dislike her because she will be hurt by a scumbag. However, I lost my sense of security and my confidence.
She will be careful when dating you. She doesn’t dare to dress up for fear of attracting your attention too much, but if you look closely at her dress, it is full of details.
The most important thing is that her "cute" attitude will give her away. For example, he may speak with a long tail tone, say "wow", "oh", or "trouble" from time to time. For example, he may unconsciously hold his chin with his hands, look at you starry-eyed or doggy-eyed, or bite his chopsticks and roll his eyes around, and steal glances at you at all times.
Now judge, what do you mean to her? Meal tickets? Spare tire? Or is it more than a friend but not a lover?
