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Blind date has become a very common way to fall in love nowadays, but many people go on blind dates because they seldom go on blind dates or it is their first time. So I didn’t know what to talk about and fell through.

The editor below will teach you some chatting skills on blind dates, so that you can leave a good impression on the other party during the blind date.

1. Show ambition

During the first blind date with a girl, whether it is Whether it’s the first blind date or the second blind date, before the blind date, both parties basically have a general understanding of each other’s personal information, so when chatting, you don’t need to dwell on these personal information, but let both parties Have a general understanding of each other's life attitudes and life pursuits, which can resonate with both parties. You can start the topic from the work, study and life of both parties to build attraction.

For example, some common problems in life are not being able to find a good job, not making a lot of money, and changing many jobs, but I have been persisting in the career I like, and now I have become If you are a small supervisor in the company, your salary is several times the original salary, etc. Girls will think that you are a motivated person.

It is best not to talk like this:

Boy: Hello, I am xxx, this is xx introduction I'm here for a blind date

Girl: Hello

Boy: How about we order food first and chat while eating

Girl: OK

Boys: Do you usually eat breakfast?

Girls: Occasionally

Boys: Then you must remember to eat it. Not eating in the morning will be bad for your stomach

Girl: Thank you for your concern

Boy: I see you are so thin and don’t eat often, so I will give you food

Girl: No need

In the above question and answer, there is nothing wrong with boys being nice to girls, but it is obvious that they feel that girls are a bit repulsive. In fact, it is towards girls. Being nice is too much. During the first blind date, your motives are too obvious, which makes the girl feel uncomfortable. Before getting familiar with the girl and generating enough attraction, the girl will not like it if you are too nice to the girl.

2. Have more interactions

During the blind date process, in addition to getting to know each other, you also have to talk to the girl Interact more, and you must learn to mobilize girls' emotions. Don't keep talking to girls about your current situation to express yourself, but talk about some happy topics with girls. Keeping girls' emotions happy is the key.

For example:

Boy: I have a puppy at home that I don’t want to keep. I see you like small animals very much, so I’ll sell it to you at a discount.

Girl: Really? How much does it cost? ?

Boy: 100 yuan

Girl: Is it so cheap?

Boy: Well, I will sell you the dog cage together. It can’t sleep in another house. , but there is a fee for the dog cage

Girl: Oh, how much is it?

Boy: 2,500 yuan

Girl: So expensive?

Boys: Of course, look at how expensive house prices are now

Girls: Haha

The above dialogue is to guide girls to interact with you and make girls feel emotionally happy. Make her like chatting with you and gradually get closer to girls.

3. Show sincerity

We must understand that the purpose of dating is to gain love faster , so when chatting with girls, you must have a sincere attitude and talk more about what is in your heart, so that the girl feels that you really want to pursue her. However, it is not enough to just show your sincerity. You have to talk about what is in your heart. Let’s guide girls to express their thoughts, so that you can get to know girls better and avoid any cold moments.

For example:

Boy: If there are only two men left in the world, one is super ugly and the other is handsome, will you choose to marry me?

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Girl: Then I have no choice, I have to marry you

Boy: But I may not marry you. I said there are only two men left in the world, but I didn’t say it. You are the only woman

Girl: Oh, you are so bad