The most taboo thing about chasing girls is being stubborn and not letting go of a girl. Although many boys don’t want to admit it, this kind of behavior will probably make you a fish in her pond. What will happen if you chase a girl? Can I give up?
1. I am always ambiguous with you, but the relationship cannot go any further
Love is the process of gradually shortening the distance between two people. Every time you want to take a step further with her, you only get her words: "I'll do it next time."
She enjoys the treatment of "girlfriend", but is not willing to give you the title of "boyfriend". Over time, you will gradually rely on her, and you will even be afraid that once you confess your love, you will not even be friends.
You think you have a choice, but in the end you find out that from the moment you fell in love with her, you have been led by her nose. In this case, you can just choose to give up.
2. Pretending to be hurt by love and unwilling to escalate the relationship
Such girls are particularly good at taking advantage of your sympathy and create a sense of "you can get her if you work harder" illusion. You think you're not good enough to fix her broken heart.
Actually, she was waiting for the five little brothers to repair her injuries. Don't ask why it's 5, because she was seriously injured.
3. Never contact you
She will only come to you when she needs it. This is You feel the reason why she is hot and cold towards you.
For those girls who can arouse your emotions, her emotional intelligence must be high, and her purpose is also very strong. She treats you as a tool, and is afraid that you will also be superior:
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"She doesn't ask for help from others, which means that I am not ordinary to her." Of course it is not ordinary, you are not ordinary "stupid" in her eyes.
Have you noticed that whether it’s because “I’ve been hurt” or “I don’t want to ruin your friendship...”, etc., these excuses are like an invisible “shell” covering you and binding you. Trying to get you to do what she wants!
You need to take the initiative to break this "shell"!
It is recommended that you stay true to yourself at this time and not do anything to cater to her. Not afraid of losing her. The less you care about your results, the better you can perform!
For example, if a girl says to you: "Anyone who really loves you will take the initiative to find you!"
You He broke it off and said: "So, you should love me more, so that you can look for me more."
However, not all women who cannot commit immediately are scumbags. There is another condition. refer to.
Girls adopt different strategies than boys when choosing a mate. Boys take the initiative and show who they like very obviously, while girls, because of the high cost of childbearing,Compared with boys, they are more "slow to warm up".
Just like if you ask a girl now: "Do you like me?" She will either smile and say you hate it, or she will If she doesn't just call you a pervert, there's an 80% chance that she won't admit that she likes you.
She doesn’t necessarily really dislike you, it’s just that it will take longer for them to establish a relationship.
What is the difference between "slowly warming" and scumbag?
Actually, this is just one thing: you have to see if she cares about her own image. The scumbag Neptune always deceives you as many times as she can. She doesn’t care about how she looks in your heart, because you are not important.
A girl who has a crush on you may reject you when you confess your feelings, but when we get along with her, she still values ??her reputation and reputation, so when you always hear negative news about her, you may Don't be stupid, brother, when she's showing off her pity in front of you.
