When looking for a person to get married, what should be the most important thing?
Some people say it is feelings, some people say material things, and some people say character. In fact, whether you are in love or getting married, you must first find an emotionally stable person to marry.
Because everyone’s emotions and the way they deal with problems will tell what kind of person they are.
For a long-term intimate relationship, the most important thing is the stability, stability, and happiness when you are in love, and meeting the emotional needs of both parties.
You can appreciate each other and feel joy and happiness. The other person likes to be with you, and your frequency is consistent. If the other person can give you this feeling, it means you are truly in love.
1. Peace of mind
The feeling of peace of mind is that you will never worry that the other person will leave you, you are enough To attract the other person, you also know how to put the other person in an important position.
This kind of peace of mind can only be felt when two people are a perfect match.
Many couples seem to often quarrel and have conflicts, and feel that the relationship between the other party is not good. In fact, sometimes, relationships are just a matter of two people and the way the other party handles problems, but this does not affect the other party's feelings. Affection and feelings for each other.
Peace of mind means that when you make some decisions, you will choose the other person without hesitation and feel that the other person is a trustworthy person.
Those who can make you feel at ease are people who are willing to compromise with each other and are suitable for each other.
2. Start liking yourself
When you are with someone, you become more and more Like yourself, and even feel that you have become a better version of yourself at this time.
In fact, becoming a better version of yourself shows that you have become more confident.
Although love makes people feel inferior, just like Wu Zhihong once said: "When you fall in love with someone, your first reaction is to feel inferior." But the real and suitable love is to gradually find it in inferiority. A suitable fulcrum to make yourself better and achieve a better balance.
Two people who are truly suitable must nourish each other, can make people happy and progress, and can make people feel happy.
In any relationship, if you always feel low self-esteem, there may be a hidden blow behind it.
In an intimate relationship, when a person is often hit by his partner, the other person will often feel depressed, constantly doubt his own value in the process of getting along, and even think that being able to be with her is a gift.
But the person who was hit also forgot that the other person is also a unique person in the world, and the other person also has his ownown unique value.
A suitable partner must appreciate each other and be able to see each other's strengths and weaknesses.
Only in an atmosphere of mutual encouragement and constant appreciation, will you always be so confident and become a better version of yourself.
If you start to become less confident after being with a person, or even keep catering to the other person, it means that you have become an unsuitable person for the other person.
At this time, don’t doubt that there is something wrong with you, and don’t keep denying yourself. She is just not suitable for you anymore.
Love is a two-way process, with mutual compromise and tolerance. It cannot be accomplished by relying on the support of one person.
I hope you can meet someone who can appreciate each other and like each other.
