Although it is said that you should maintain yourself when you are in love, love itself is a process of adjustment. Being too self-centered means being conceited. It is difficult to continue a relationship like this. So what are the signs that girls are too self-centered in love? If you meet a girl who is too self-centered, I suggest you stay away, because meeting such a girl will be very tiring.
1. Don’t care about other people’s feelings
In addition to the princess disease, the most obvious thing about girls who are too self-centered is that they don’t care about other people’s feelings. Think about it, if the girl you like doesn't care about your feelings, would you still be willing to approach her? For example, if you are telling her about your family affairs, but you are halfway through talking to her and you can’t stand it anymore, and turn to talk to you about something else, what she wants to say, what will you think in your heart, and how will you feel about her? Is it very simple? No, you will only think that she is selfish and rude. So next time, are you willing to share your affairs with her? She doesn't even want to listen to you. Are you still willing to continue pursuing her?
2. Not listening to other people’s opinions
If you like a girl, you definitely hope she can Okay, so when you see something wrong with her, you won't resent it, but you will find a way to correct it for her. But girls who are too self-centered simply cannot listen to other people's opinions. Even if she admits that she is not doing well in this area and promises to change it, she seems to have it in one ear and out the other. You can really see it in your eyes and remember it in your heart, and you will feel that she is really too self-centered. , and you will feel that you have no ability to distinguish right from wrong, and you turn a deaf ear to your kindness. This is one of the manifestations of your special self.
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3. Unwillingness to break in
We always say that you must maintain yourself when falling in love. Love is a process of breaking in. But we can't be too self-centered. Being too self-centered means being conceited, which will make it difficult to fall in love. A girl who insists too much on herself can only deal with people who have similar views to her, because she can't listen to other people's advice and personalities. Do whatever you think, no matter how good or suspicious other people's advice and suggestions are, they will not be listened to and have any effect on you. Either others admire her very much, or others reject her very much. Because she really doesn't want to get along, which is the most selfish expression in love.
4. Listen to her in everything
Girls who are too self-centered like others to follow her As long as you go against her wishes, she will show off to you and become petty, because in her eyes, "If you really love me, you should listen to me in everything." It doesn't seem like that. Listening to her is like not loving her, maybe you will like her in a short timeSo I can tolerate her and act according to her wishes. But everyone is an independent individual. In the long run, you will still find it unbearable and want to resist, and the girl will think that you have changed your heart and the relationship still cannot last long.
