When many people add a girl on WeChat, they always wait a long time for the girl to reply when they first chat, or even don’t even get a reply from the girl directly. The main reason why this happens is that they don’t have a good opening line. It makes girls less interested in replying.
So when chatting with a girl on WeChat for the first time, what are the opening remarks that can make her want to reply?
p>1. Complimentary opening statement
If you don’t know how to start your first chat with a girl on WeChat, you can praise the girl. I believe no girl will refuse compliments. In the first chat, compliments are the most important thing It is very useful for girls. It can make the girl like you quickly and make the next chat smoother.
Of course, praising a girl does not mean telling her that you are beautiful and good-looking. Such compliments will appear hollow and lack emotion in the words. When praising a girl, you must pay attention to the details of the praise, such as:
Boys: You look really gentle and kind. I believe you must be a person who is willing to make more friends
Girls: Haha, really?
Boys: You Her eyebrows are curved, and the light in her eyes is different from others, giving people a clear feeling
Girl: Is there any, I didn’t even notice it myself?
Don’t be blind when praising girls. Complimenting a girl for her beauty can help you discover more of her unique charm (kindness, cuteness, knowledge, and gentleness). In this way, when a girl chats with you, she will feel that you are different from other boys and will be more willing to chat with you.
2. Declarative opening remarks
When chatting with girls for the first time, many boys always like to use questions. Openings, such as: "Are you there?" "Can we get to know each other?" "Can you be my girlfriend?" In fact, this approach leaves the choice of chatting to girls. Girls who are in a good mood may reply to you. If they are in a bad mood, they may reply to you. , we will not reply to you. If you want to continue the chat, you can change the question into a statement, such as:
Boy: Have we met somewhere?
Girl: No
Boy: Let’s get to know each other formally
Boy: Have we met somewhere?
Girl: In a dream?
Boy: How do you know? Could it be Are we connected?
Girl: Haha
Boy: I was busy talking to you in my dream last night and forgot to ask your name
It doesn’t work Whatever the reason for choosing to start a chat, you must understand that the beginning is to attract the girl's attention. At the beginning of the chat, you must grasp the rhythm of the chat. During the chat, let the girl follow your thoughts, lead her emotions, and establishGet in touch.
3. Curious opening remarks
Everyone will have a desire to explore unknown things. When chatting, , send a sentence to make the girl curious, the girl will feel curious and want to know the answer, thus arousing her curiosity, and the girl will have the desire to continue chatting with you.
When chatting with a girl, don’t say it all at once. You can tell the girl bit by bit so that the girl keeps guessing what your next sentence will be and arouse her curiosity, such as:
Boys: I noticed something in your eyes?
Girls: What is it? Colored contact lenses?
Boys: No
Girls: What is that?
Boys: There is a handsome guy looking at you
Girls: Ouch, you are so narcissistic
Boys : When chatting with a cute girl, of course you have to dress up handsomely
Leave a mystery to the girl at the beginning of the chat. The other party will definitely reply to you in order to know the answer. At this time, you can continue the conversation based on this topic.
4. Humorous opening remarks
Chatting with girls is a process of establishing mutual attraction. The establishment of attraction requires Start by stimulating girls' emotions. Use sweet words and interesting routines during chat. Girls will like chatting with you. For example:
Boys: What do you usually like to eat?
Girls: Vegetables and fruits.
Boys: I think you must like sweets
Girl: Why
Boy: You are so sweet, you must have grown up eating candy.
Sweet words and routine exercises are both a type of humor. Don’t be limited to this type of humor when chatting with girls. You must know how to use it flexibly and use your sense of humor at the right time. Girls will naturally be attracted by it. You make me laugh.
Okay, I believe everyone has a certain understanding of how to start a WeChat chat with a girl for the first time. No matter which way you start, you must understand the core of the chat process: interesting. As long as the chat is interesting, the girl will naturally I will be willing to chat with you.
