In a relationship, the scary thing is not how to coax your girlfriend when she is angry. The most terrifying thing is that your girlfriend is angry but you don’t know why your girlfriend is angry. This situation is definitely the worst of the century for most straight men. Dilemma!
Here I would like to share with you the coping strategies when your girlfriend is angry, so that your girlfriend can’t find any fault! Even if you don’t know what’s wrong, you can still coax your girlfriend well. It is recommended for straight men 100% full text recitation.
1. Girlfriend looks angry
Girlfriend "Don't talk to me!"
p>Subtext analysis - Unless you sincerely apologize to me, then shut up. I don’t want to hear a perfunctory apology, and I don’t want to hear it. If you dare to approach me with a playful smile and think you can ease the atmosphere, You are totally wrong there!
Girlfriend “Don’t touch me!”
Subtext analysis – I am really angry, stay away from me, you He is not the male protagonist of an idol drama, nor is he an idol, nor is he my male idol. He forcefully hugs me and kisses me. Believe it or not, I just slap him?
p>2. How to behave when your girlfriend is angry
Some straight men will immediately coax their girlfriends when they get angry. Although acting so eagerly can let your girlfriend see how much you treat her. I don't care, but it is also possible to provoke her to explode when her girlfriend is emotionally unstable!
Therefore, when your girlfriend is angry, you should adopt a "two-step" strategy, step by step. , the steps are too big, click ~ easy to pull the egg!
1. Silence, let both parties calm down for a while, give time and appropriate space (still be by your side, remember not to leave her). It avoids her most irrational outbursts - I get annoyed when I see you! It also avoids her duplicity - if I tell you to get out, will you really get out of here?
2. Steady Stay silent. Don’t judge or criticize yourself at first. Start with a slight apology for the most direct and trivial matters: It was my fault just now and I didn’t take your thoughts into consideration... My attitude was too low at the beginning. If my girlfriend is aggressive later, How do you explain it?
If your girlfriend is considerate, then she will calm down if you do this; if your girlfriend is still stubborn about your fault, then first of all, your attitude is correct. Can you coax her? Good to her, it depends on your next behavior.
3. How to comfort your girlfriend when she is angry
Next, if you know the essential reason why your girlfriend is angry , you can apologize openly and sincerely at this time. If you don’t know, just apply the apology formula! Combine it with the current situation and apply it. You can score at least 6 points for a 10-point question!
Apology formula
1. Wrong enterprising spirit: Are you low-pressure and negative in front of others? Are you blaming others? Are you incapable of doing something but others have achieved something and are embarrassed by them?
2. Position error: When she quarreled with others, did you say that others were right? Is it that your parents were dissatisfied with her and you supported her?
3. Loyalty error: betrayal Who did you chat with? In which vixen’s circle of friends did you flirt with someone? Did you flirt with your ex-girlfriend?
4. Concerned about mistakes: Did you forget to accompany her? Have you given up? Did you forget to include her in your future planning? Did you place an order on Taobao without carefully selecting the items you sent?
5. Wrong attitude: Is it you? Are you annoyed by her? Are you absent-minded on dates or other times? Are you anxious to yell at her? Are you too restrained on her, asking questions like this and that?
Apology routines - I just said I think too simply. This matter is essentially my fault. I didn't consider your feelings.../We are a couple. I should think more about whether this will hurt you. My behavior is too childish...
4. Remember to listen when your girlfriend is angry
1. In some cases, just the apology formula, Maybe it's still not enough, because girls still have a lot of complaints and guidance that they haven't talked about. At this time, just listen and listen.
2. Because the girlfriend initiated the anger, and the qualification of the apology is also decided by the girlfriend. The ending of the anger is still controlled by the girlfriend, and the whole situation is always under her control! You If you ignore the ending, you will lack "details".
3. When your girlfriend has vented her emotions, you can kiss and hug her again. Congratulations, your girlfriend is no longer angry at all!
