When you have been chasing a girl for a long time, and the girl finally tells you that you are a nice person but we can’t be together, there is no doubt that you have been given the good guy card. However, many boys feel that giving a good guy card to a girl is actually not a firm rejection, so they still want to continue to pursue the girl, but they don't know if this is the right thing to do. Next, the editor will discuss with you the question of whether you still need to chase after a good person card is issued. There are two choices.
1. The situation of issuing a good person card without continuing to chase
1. Spare tire maintenance The plan comes true
Perhaps, in the process of chasing a girl, you have discovered that you feel like you are being spared: when you take the initiative to find a girl, she refuses you in various ways; when you are about to give up, She will take the initiative to tease you again; when you pay for meals and gifts, she will gladly accept it, but if you ask to go further, she will back off and not give a single cent to you; if you think she also likes you, then muster up the courage to confess to her. Then she said to you, "I'm sorry, you are a very nice person, but we are not suitable for each other." This is a typical sign of treating you as a backup. Although the spare tire can also be turned into a regular one, why do you need to be her spare tire? It is recommended that in this case, if the good person card is issued, there is no need to pursue it.
2. Be a friend
Some girls are more carefree. Maybe you like her and have done a lot for her but she still doesn’t know it. She just treats you as a friend. Every time you get along, you think it's getting better, but she may think it's frightening. Just imagine how you would react if a good friend confessed their feelings to you. Of course, they would send you a good person card. That's not all, the girl will definitely introduce you to a girlfriend as a friend and look for a partner... In this case, you don't have to think too much, just be good friends with her honestly, no need Go after it, otherwise none of your friends will be able to do it. If everything goes well, you can have a good friend of the opposite sex with whom you have a good relationship.
2. Situations in which you can chase after being issued a good person card
1. Having just suffered an emotional impact
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If a girl has just experienced emotional pain and is afraid of being hurt again, so she doesn’t want to enter a new relationship now, your confession to her will make her hesitant and choose to give her love because she can’t bear to hurt you. You hand out good guy cards. In this case, the good guy card sent to you by the woman does not have strong magic power. She is just in a low period for the time being and cannot accept a new relationship. If you don't want to give up, you can still persist. When the girl gets through this trough period and plans to fall in love, you, the person who patiently accompanies her, will have new gains.
2. Conservative thoughts
Some girls have not been in love or have conservative thoughts. They will not easily accept a person’s confession, so they will Send you good peopleKa Lai declines you politely. You must give up in this situation. When a girl sends you a good person card, she just thinks that you have not been together for a long time and she is not sure whether she wants to accept you. It is not that she hates you. If you can let her trust you in the next time you get together, then congratulations, you are already a quasi-boyfriend, and it will only be a matter of time before you become a permanent boyfriend.
Whether you should chase after a good guy card is issued can mainly be judged according to the above 4 situations. We do not recommend blindly continuing to chase, and we do not want to give up rashly. And emotional matters themselves are very complicated. Maybe girls have other unspeakable secrets that you don’t know. Wouldn’t it be a pity if you just missed it?
