Love triangles are difficult to deal with. After all, one person cannot inject feelings into two people at the same time, because doing so would be harmful to any one of them, and it is also an immoral or bottomless behavior. If you fall into a triangle, How to deal with a love triangle?
What is the best way to deal with a love triangle?
1. Don’t ask questions or pester them
When it comes to matters involving him and another person, try your best to Avoid asking questions. What you like about him is who he is now, and what he was like in the past. As long as it does not affect your current emotions, don't ask for details or worry about the past. For example, if his wife wants to go out with him, will he be allowed to go? Maybe for safety reasons, you ask to go with him, so why bother? With you around, everyone will be embarrassed, and he will also feel that you are not even a little bit No freedom is given to him. So, just be generous and let him go!
2. Have confidence and learn to let go
Only by having confidence in yourself can you shine and make others like you. . If you feel inferior because of her, or because you are worried that he will think you are not as good as her, and you deliberately say something derogatory about yourself to get him to coax you, that is really boring. Do you want him to choose you because you are better? Or choose you because you are pitiful? Go chat with friends, go shopping with your family... Anyway, he is not the only one in your world. Don't put all the focus on him. If you really want to keep something, the best way is to learn to let go and keep a little distance. If it is still there after letting go, it really should be yours.
3. Don’t be too greedy
People who are greedy in relationships, whether they are men or women, will eventually The result must be hurting others and yourself. Love is always selfish, and it is impossible to have two interests at the same time. Love is a matter of two people. A love triangle will only make the relationship anxious, and it is nothing more than pulling chestnuts from the flames.
4. Stay away for a period of time
No matter what type of love triangle it is, you should be tangled in your heart. But the authorities are confused, and the outsiders are clear. When looking at emotional issues from the perspective of an outsider, they can see clearly and clearly, either love or walk away. If you can't cut through the mess quickly, I suggest you don't force yourself to make a choice, and don't force the other party, just let go and stay away for a while. Don't underestimate the few days when you let go. Maybe in those few days, you will see a different person, you will also see a different yourself, and you will see the true face of this relationship clearly.
5. Don’t regret your choice
For some people, the consequences of choosing in relationships It's a pity, because whoever you choose will become vulgar in daily life, so I regret not having it.Who to choose. This regret may accompany you throughout your life. In fact, in relationships, there is no one who is good or bad. If you can love with your heart and the other person can love you, then this is a suitable couple. As for the subsequent tedious matters, whoever you marry or who you marry, the result will be the same. Therefore, if you make a choice at this time, you must remember that you should not regret it.
6. Decide whether to give up completely depending on the situation
If you are the one who provoked the love triangle, I suggest you handle it all with a responsible attitude and in the shortest possible time. No matter why you fell into a love triangle, it means that your love for each other is not as true as you imagined. If it was true love, if it was sincere, how could you fall into a love triangle? Ask yourself, look at the other person , are you really loving with one heart? If you are not sure, instead of loving and being loved in a humble way, it is better to cut the knot quickly, break off the relationship, find a new relationship that truly belongs to two people, and start your beauty again life.
