I like a girl, but find that I have done a lot, but she didn't notice me at all. In this case, it is easy to control your mentality poorly and scare the other person away by confessing your love in a hurry. So how do you quickly make her notice you and have a good impression of you when chasing a girl?
First of all, girls are emotional animals, so if you want her to notice you and have a good impression of you, you have to Learn to mobilize her emotions towards you.
1. Appearance and temperament mobilize her emotions
The first is appearance. Many brothers feel that they are not handsome, so no girl can look up to them.
This statement is not unreasonable, but a man’s handsomeness is not entirely related to his innate appearance.
Just like Jack Ma, his facial features look strange, but his overall appearance to people around him is that he is both ugly and handsome. Right?
Therefore, today I am here to correct a common misunderstanding among the public: there are no ugly men in the world, only lazy men.
"The image of a boy before the age of 20 is given by his parents, and the image after the age of 20 is given by himself."
Many boys who are not good-looking know how to dress themselves up, so they let girls I feel very good.
Men like beautiful girls, and women also like exquisite boys.
So looking at faces is never a derogatory term, it is just human nature’s natural preference for beautiful things.
Don’t think that skin care is just for girls. In this day and age, skin care for boys is not a scandal.
Of course, as a boy, you can be masculine and don’t need to wear makeup every day like girls do.
But it is still necessary to wash your face clean and use facial cleanser and toner to keep your skin fresh.
After all, a boy with acne on his face really makes girls not want to get close to his face.
Another point is the outfit.
Girls pay much more attention to boys’ outfits than to boys’ looks.
Good clothing can play a role in making up for your weaknesses in your appearance.
Some fat boys should pay attention to the color of their clothes, which usually makes them look less fat;
Short boys should pay attention to matching hats and rolling up trousers, and The color of the shoes often doesn't make them look so short.
So many times, the reason why people around you think you look fat or short is not necessarily because you are really too fat or too short. It may be because your poor outfit covers your body. The advantages magnify your physical defects.
2. Inner improvement to mobilize her emotions
The feeling that a man’s chat brings to a woman can often directly reach her inner feelings.Heart.
The quality of chatting and interaction is not too much. Being not talkative does not mean that you are not good at chatting.
You know, if you don’t chat with a girl, she will only lose points in her heart;
But if you chat awkwardly with her, your points in the girl’s heart will be greatly reduced. The loss of not chatting with her.
As the saying goes, if you know yourself and the enemy, you can fight a hundred battles without danger.
You need to understand women’s thinking to know how to chat to make a girl attracted to you and make her fall in love with the feeling of chatting with you.
The clever use of female thinking can easily shorten the distance between your hearts.
There is also the behavior of boys. Women are very good at catching men's body language, and they are usually proficient in subtle communication.
And compared to language, they believe that they can judge a man’s true psychological activities through the details of his behavior.
Studies have shown that when people interact with each other, the information conveyed by body behavior is far richer and more real than the information contained in language.
Therefore, boys usually interact with girls, pay attention to the details of their behavior, and rationally use their body to communicate subtly, which can often produce unexpected results.
Now that we have talked about the attraction of appearance and temperament, the next thing to talk about is the attraction of inner cultivation.
Boys usually pay more attention to whether a girl’s appearance is beautiful, while girls tend to pay more attention to whether a boy is a good person.
This kind of excellence is multi-faceted:
1. Lifestyle
Women pay more attention to life than their passion for career.
Therefore, a man who knows how to live is very popular in the hearts of women.
Boys must learn to show their lives in style, so that girls can have a better impression of you from the beginning.
This is early attraction, which is very helpful for breaking the ice smoothly.
Live your life in a rich and emotional way, and girls will be attracted to your life and look forward to entering your world.
2. Ideology
In your interaction with girls, only when your communication involves ideas, can you enter the stage of deep mutual understanding.
At this time, it involves the game of framework and the game of ideological maturity.
Only when your thoughts are mature enough can girls feel attracted, and only then can they feel safe and dependent on being with you in the future.
On the other hand, your mind must be open enough.
Because you are two independent individuals, it is impossible for your three views to completely match. When you have a conflict of ideas, if you can tolerate and understand her differences with you, then she will look at you with admiration and look forward to getting to know you better.
3. Behavior
He is calm when things happen, and he is very attractive to women.
When she is most insecure, your calmness can make her feel safe and make her instinctively want to be close to you.
"A man's mysterious tranquility is far better than his active provocation."
If you can handle complicated problems properly, women will think that you have outstanding abilities.
4. Showing the vulnerable side
Mature, steady and emotional men can certainly be extremely attractive to girls, but women who are really smart enough will understand:
Only when a man acts like a child in front of her does it mean that he truly regards her as one of his own.
Therefore, in addition to letting women see your usually strong and determined side, when she is in a mood, you should also occasionally show her your unknown, lonely and fragile side.
In this way, women will feel that you are a real person, with strength, vulnerability, laughter, and pain.
So, for a woman, either you can be like a father and pamper her to heaven.
Or you can act like a child and inspire her motherhood.
Only in this way will she feel protected and needed.
