In your opinion, is online dating reliable? Why do I want to talk about this topic today? Because I found that many friends have had the experience of online dating, and some even have online dating. That is the common situation in online dating today. Next, what is your attitude towards online dating?
If you have ever been in Tieba, you will find that Many posts using license plates to ask for a partner are a bit like looking for a needle in a haystack.
Among the posts posted by 70% to 80% of boys, there is one thing in common: I am a xx person, I have a stable job, and you must come to me.
And girls usually say: distance is not a problem, if it suits me I will run towards you.
Every time I see this, I have a lot of strange thoughts in my mind. Why do boys always talk about girls’ reality, but hiding behind the screen can think about it before they even talk to each other? Let the other party accommodate you to the greatest extent possible.
After chatting with my friends, I felt that such a needle-in-a-haystack style of love and one-way pursuit is meaningless.
With the popularity of 996, migrant workers have less and less time for themselves.
On occasional days off, most people will choose to stay at home to relax or play with friends.
Over time, the chances of meeting new people become slim.
At this time, in order to save costs, a large number of people will choose online dating.
Post first, filter out a compatible person from the replies, and then discuss the matter later when the spiritual needs cannot be satisfied without meeting.
If BenXian succeeds, they will continue to fall in love; if BenXian fails, they will part ways.
In too many videos of street interviews, we often see stories like this:
I am not a local. I gave up my friends and job to come here for my ex. Later, Because some small things drifted away, in the middle of the night when I felt aggrieved and cried, I found that I couldn't find anyone to cry to.
Whether it is a script or reality, you will usually see a lot of resonance when you click on the video comment area. It is basically the same process, and the ending is that the party that goes in one direction loses everything.
Many times, we are aloof and unwilling to treat love as an investment.
In fact, all aspects of life require careful management. Only people who have never been hurt by love will believe that everything is seamless. Made in heaven.
When I was reviewing posts, I set a screening criteria for myself: photos, self-introduction, and authenticity.
Since then, I have been completely addicted to the world of Tieba. I deeply thought that I had become an emperor for a time and had some fun in selecting concubines. This is probably one of the reasons why men are willing to use this method to select partners.
After reading countless posts, I found oneA good-looking boy with good qualifications and personality, became friends with each other, chatted for a long time, and we went through countless rounds of tricks. Finally, it was the last step. The other party told me: I don’t date online.
I asked: Why would you post if you are not dating online?
He: I found someone in the same city and you added me yourself.
I looked back at his post and found that it was indeed like that. It was all because I was blinded by my appearance.
Since then, when I was struggling with how to get this person and let me post it on Moments, he took the initiative to propose a solution.
“Just come to my place.”
I don’t know what I was thinking at the time, but I really wanted to rush to his city regardless, but luckily I was pulled away by my friend. After a few days of being sad, my mind cleared up.
It’s not easy to meet someone online if you think about it. Since the conversation is promising, there is no need to rush to confirm the relationship.
If you really have emotional needs for each other, you can make an appointment in advance to meet in person, chat in person, and see if the real-person confrontation will break the filters on the Internet.
To get to the next step, you need to stay in contact online for a while before you can believe that the other person is not just using you to kill time, but treating you with sincerity.
Therefore, for a hard-won marriage, you must be patient and restrained, manage it seriously, feel love, and go both ways.
Be cautious when dating online.
