The Chinese New Year is coming soon, and the peak period for blind dates is coming soon. Brothers who want to date and be single during the Chinese New Year must pay attention to what should be paid attention to when going on a blind date during the Chinese New Year? Paying attention to these details will help you avoid detours in the subsequent blind date process, and it may help you meet the right blind date girl!
What should boys pay attention to when going on a blind date during the Chinese New Year?
First, it is you who are on the blind date, not your parents. They are anxious and often urge you to take the initiative, often doing bad things with good intentions. .
Many boys go on a blind date not because they want to, but because their parents urge them. Although they finally go on a blind date, they are not very interested in it, and girls can feel it too. Since you choose to go on a blind date, you must be willing. Otherwise, even if you really go on a blind date and meet a girl you like, you will leave a bad impression on the girl because of your initial lack of attention. The final result is self-evident.
Secondly, the woman’s parents will say they are satisfied because of face. You have to know that she is not satisfied, and everything is in vain.
During the blind date process, we often encounter the parents of the girl on the blind date who say they are satisfied with you, and then say why you don’t take the initiative to chat with the girl on the blind date, but if you take the initiative to chat with the girl on the blind date, she will Those who are indifferent to you will make people confused. Many times the words of the parents of the blind date should not be taken seriously. The most important thing is to see the attitude of the blind date themselves.
Third, the butt determines the head. A blind date is just for you to get to know each other. It is not yet a boyfriend or girlfriend. Don’t talk like a couple right from the beginning.
Many people think that everyone chooses to go on a blind date for the purpose of getting married, so they want to upgrade the relationship from the very beginning, and even talk about getting married in the future. Girls will not let you be so anxious. If she thinks you are sincere, it will make her think you are impatient, and she doesn't trust you that much.
Fourth, arrange a place to rest and sit on the first date, and try not to eat hot pot or barbecue.
The most important thing in a blind date is to see if two people have common topics when chatting, and whether they can have a pleasant chat, so it is very important to have a good chatting environment.
Fifth, love is about talking. Spend more time chatting. The best state of a blind date is to let the other person do it. I don’t feel like I’m on a blind date.
In fact, blind date is the same as our free love. Two people get to know each other, get to know each other, and finally fall in love. So don’t think that blind date means someone accepts you. You still have to put in the effort to pursue it.
Sixth, don’t belittle yourself when going on a blind date. Talking about your shortcomings is not sincerity, but stupidity.
Although we do not agree with praising ourselves too much during a blind date, we should not be too harsh.Show your shortcomings. Girls will most likely give up when they see your shortcomings from the beginning.
