Chasing girls can’t just be a blind pursuit, but you must also learn to judge a girl’s level of interest in you. If a girl is not interested in you at all, no matter how hard you try, it may be in vain. Here are 8 things to do with girls: If it shows that you are not interested, just give up if you win more than two.
1. Keep playing with your mobile phone
Keeping playing with your mobile phone during a date is extremely disrespectful to your date. Although this kind of behavior may be because a girl has something to deal with or is addicted to playing mobile phones, if she has the following three reactions, it means that she is probably not interested in you:
(1) Just now She treats you well when you meet her, but her attention shifts from you to her mobile phone every time (because after a preliminary understanding, she has lost interest in you);
(2) Very focused, When you talk to her, she will either pretend to be confused, or give a perfunctory reply (because the girl realizes that she is not interested in you, but is too embarrassed to just say that we should go back to our respective homes);
Although she has been playing with her mobile phone, But it was obvious that my mind was not on the phone, and I felt a little restless, as if I was looking forward to something (I wanted to leave but couldn't find a suitable reason, so I had to play with my phone to relieve anxiety).
Of course, girls may have these three reactions if they have something to deal with, but if they add two more conditions, they are completely not interested in you:
(1) You guys We chatted well online, but she did this after meeting. The contrast was too great;
(2) You asked her not to play with her mobile phone, but she refused. You asked her if something was wrong, but she didn't admit it.
2. Reject your further invitations
For example, after you met a girl, you found a cafe to sit and chat for a while, and then invited her to have a meal with you, but she was rejected. .
Or maybe you have a dinner date directly, and after the meal you invite her to watch a movie or go shopping somewhere, but the girl refuses.
At the end you wanted to send her home, but she refused.
These are also signs that a girl is not interested in you. She doesn’t want to give you another chance. She feels that her date with you is enough and there is no need to continue.
3. I don’t want to go to a more private environment with you
For example, restaurants and cafes are located in corners. , parks where there are not many people, she is not willing to go to these places with you even in broad daylight. Because a girl has no feelings for you, she will feel embarrassed in this relatively private environment.
Of course, this situation is not serious. In most cases, it is just that girls are reserved and do not want to get too close without being sure that they want to develop a relationship with you. Slowly develop good feelings and strengthen attraction, as long asDon't be too anxious, the possibility of capturing her is still very high.
4. Always keep a certain distance from you
A girl has a safe distance. She does not allow strangers of the opposite sex to approach people she does not like. Only boys she is interested in can Break through this distance.
If she doesn’t like you, she will definitely not allow you to get too close to her, because this will cause her discomfort and may cause you to misunderstand and think you have received a hint and then increase your efforts to chase her. This It's like causing trouble for yourself.
5. Not replying to your message after separation
After the date, we usually send a message to greet the other person at the time when he or she will arrive home. If she never replies, it's probably because she's not interested in you and doesn't want to talk to you. If there is no reply for more than 24 hours, it can be declared cold.
A girl who truly respects you and cares about you will never leave you alone after the date. Because the period after a date breaks up is the most emotionally sensitive stage for two people, and any abnormal reaction at this time will make people think wildly.
Not only will a girl who is interested in you not refuse to reply to your message, she will also take the initiative to report to you whether she is home, thereby establishing a sense of connection with you and preventing you from having random thoughts.
6. Completely ignore your request
If you find that you have made comments to girls over and over again If you are refusing, it means that she is just using you to pass the time.
Because a girl discovers that you are not her type, then the date will lose its meaning to her. Some girls will think that since they are out anyway, just treat it as an ordinary shopping trip. In this case, she may ignore your opinions and just play what she wants to play, or buy what she wants to buy. As for what you want to do, if it conflicts with her ideas, you must reject it decisively.
For example, she knows that there is a store nearby that makes very good cakes, and she has always wanted to eat them but is too lazy to run away. After coming out this time, she feels that she doesn’t have to worry about dating anyway, so she should stop by to experience it. At this time, you want to take her to eat steak. Even if you treat her, she won't be interested.
7. She neither takes the initiative nor refuses consumption
Especially when shopping with girls, finding snacks everywhere is a must-have item.
But if you find this girl following you around the whole time, and you ask her what she wants to eat or drink, she keeps saying no, but if you go directly to the stall to buy something, she won’t object. , when you hand it to her, she will take it easily.
This also shows that girls have lost interest in dating, and are too embarrassed to turn around and leave, so they have no choice but to be a salty fish and follow you around for the whole day.
8. Buy the bill secretly
Some girls are not willing to owe others casually, they don’t like someoneAs for boys, they are not even interested in eating and drinking. She is afraid of being short-tongued, so after accepting your invitation, it will be difficult for her to say some indifferent words to you. So after she meets you and finds out that you are not her type, she will take the initiative to buy the item just so that she doesn't owe you any favors, implying that you need to draw a clear line.
Especially girls who are introduced on blind dates at home, many are afraid that they will be criticized by relatives and friends if they eat a boy’s meal and still look down on them. She must take the initiative to pay the bill to avoid falling into the trap. False words.
