When chasing girls, you often encounter some seemingly difficult questions asked by girls. In fact, this is a waste test that girls use on boys. However, many boys don’t know what the waste test means. When faced with these problems, it’s not that they don’t know how to do it. If you can't answer, you just give a perfunctory answer, which leads to the girl finally classifying her as an ordinary friend.
Next, the editor will talk to you in detail about the meaning of waste testing and how to deal with it.
1. What does the waste test mean?
In fact, the waste test is simply for a girl to screen Some of the issues raised by the pursuers. Many times, girls don't mean to give you a rubbish test, but it is a subconscious behavior.
Because they encountered too many cowards in their growth process, they must have a way to ensure that they find a truly strong man to give themselves a sense of security.
So sometimes, what they do may be very unfriendly, scare you, or even provoke you.
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So is the waste test of girls a good thing or a bad thing? Here we have to look at two situations:
1. Girls are not interested in you at all
Some of your actions during the chat have affected the girl and made her feel uncomfortable and bored, so she will directly give you unfriendly feedback. It feels like she is making things difficult for you, but in fact she is hoping that you will give up and stop bothering you. She did.
At this time, if you haven’t correctly identified the girl’s negative emotions and insist on attacking, you will only be blocked by the girl.
The best way is to retreat and disconnect in time. After a period of time, start from the circle of friends, like and comment step by step to re-establish contact with the girl.
2. Girls have a certain interest in you
When you have shown some of your high value , the girl already has a certain interest in you (maybe the girl hides it better and you don't notice it). At this time, the girl will throw out some useless tests and deliberately make things difficult for you to test whether the man in front of you is interested. Are you really that confident and excellent? Does it meet your own standards?
If you can pass the test, then the girl’s interest in you will be greatly improved, and if you fail the test, then the girl’s interest in you will also decline.
2. How to deal with girls’ waste tests
1. When a girl treats youWhen you are not interested and give bad feedback
When facing this kind of situation, trying to prove yourself or justify will only fall into the trap. The most effective way is to ignore the girl, change the topic, and direct the interaction to the attractive one. direction.
2. Girls suppress you.
When a girl suppresses you for being too young, not mature enough, or not earning enough, here are several ways to resolve it:
①Transfer your own advantages
Female: I don’t like boys younger than me
Male: What’s wrong with being younger than you? Maybe your sisters are even envious
Female: What are you envious of?
Male: I’m jealous that you know a young and promising boy like me
②Deliberately teasing girls
Female: I don’t like boys younger than me
Male: A female junior holds a gold brick, and you are only two years older than me, then you It’s worth half a gold brick
Girl: You’re only half a gold brick
Man: I’m a gold brick too, little girl, don’t drive me crazy
3. A test of a woman’s obedience to you
①Give the girl a test first
Female: Please treat me to a meal
Male: I can treat you to a meal, but You have to accompany me to a place first
Female: Help me get the bag
Male: Okay, get a bag of 50 for an hour, on call, friendly price, no opening bill.
If you really obey her at the beginning of the interaction, this will reduce your status in the relationship and cause you to lose the initiative in the interaction. So before obeying her, give her an obedience test. When a woman falls into our frame, we obey her.
