Nowadays, blind daters will chat on WeChat before meeting each other to get to know each other. However, due to the unfamiliarity and lack of chatting skills, it is easy to fall into the embarrassing situation of not knowing what to talk about.
So what should you talk about with your blind date so that it won’t be awkward? Here are two tips to avoid embarrassment.
1. How to start a chat with a blind date who has not met
Blind dates are usually introduced by friends or parents It is arranged that each other has a certain understanding before meeting, so the choice of opening remarks must not be too blunt, which will only increase the unfamiliar and awkward atmosphere. In order to establish a connection with the girl faster, you can choose from the following Aspects to start with:
1. Standard opening remarks
After adding girls’ WeChat, self-introduction is very important. Compared with telling girls directly, "Hello, I am xxx "Introduced xxx" Opening with appropriate compliments can better break the sense of unfamiliarity, and maybe even make the girl happy. But not all girls like humorous openings. You can use an opening that suits your personality.
①Suitable for mature and steady boys, who are more polite and will not feel abrupt
(smiling expression) You look very gentle, very suitable for being friends.
②Suitable for boys with outgoing and active personalities, who are more interesting and can arouse the interest of girls
Hi, my surname is Li, just call me Xiao Li, of course it is best not to Add a sub at the end.
2. Curiosity opening statement
Any time you use a woman's curiosity to open the door, it is a good choice. , because girls are born with a gossipy heart, this kind of opening remarks can easily make girls confused and make them interested in you or the topic itself.
①Pretending to be acquaintances
Have we met somewhere?
②Selling people off
I discovered that you have a characteristic.
3. Detailed praise opening statement
Chatting with a girl and talking about her topics will be easier to arouse her interest, especially it is a way to praise the other person.
①Praise the details of a girl’s appearance
Your eyes are so beautiful, like a clear lake
②Praise without following the routine
I think if I send you "Are you there, hello, beauty?", you will definitely not be able to reply to me
2. What about the blind date you haven't met yet? Chat on WeChat
We chat on WeChat with the blind date we haven’t met yet.It is actually paving the way for a date. The sooner you ask a girl out, the more important it is. If you want a girl to readily accept your invitation, controlling the atmosphere is particularly important.
1. Chatting must be relevant
We need to know that chatting with girls will not lead to a deadlock or death under normal circumstances, but many people still chat. There was nothing to say. In fact, there was a lack of contact and good interaction in the chat. For example:
Male: What are you doing
Female: Lying down
Male: Didn’t you go out to play on the weekend?
Female: There is no fun outside
Male: Indeed
Many boys here tend to answer girls’ questions when they choose to continue the topic, so it is easy to become passive or have to change the topic.
The correct approach is:
Male: What are you doing?
Female: Lying down
Male: Didn’t go out to play on the weekend ?
Female: There is no fun outside
Male: People who don’t go out to play have no soul
Female: So you are a good fun person Guys
Male: People who are very playful don’t have time to play with mobile phones
When boys face questions raised by girls, they should first clarify themselves and use interesting Refute the girl's questions and show that you are an interesting person, and the girl will be more interested in continuing the conversation.
2. Make chatting interesting
If you want to make chatting with girls interesting, you must To have an "interesting soul" and an interesting soul requires you to be able to fully answer the other party's questions while indirectly expressing yourself during the chat. For example:
Male: People who don’t go out to play have no soul
Female: So you are a very playful person
Male: Yes People who play don’t have time to play with mobile phones
Female: So am I chatting with a soulless person?
Male: It’s my heart that’s chatting with you. But the soul has drifted to you
Girl: Where is it? Why didn’t I see it?
Use jokes to answer the girl’s questions, use humor to change the topic, and create a A relaxed and pleasant atmosphere for chatting.
3. Let nature take its course and make an invitation
When you feel that the atmosphere is good while chatting with your date, you can invite the girl to meet. When making an appointment with a girl, you should pay attention to let nature take its course and do not You can directly say "Let's meet" in this way:
Male: (Send a photo of delicious food) There is a newly opened restaurant, their grilled fish is delicious
< p>Female: It looks pretty goodMale: Do you like grilled fish?
Female: It’s okay, I like hot pot
Male: I know a store and their hot pot is very special. If you have time, go and try it.
Female: Good
