Although scumbags like to play with emotions, we have to admit that scumbags easily attract girls. Have you ever thought about why scumbag men always attract girls? Below, the editor will analyze for you the reasons why scumbag men are popular with girls.
Of course, this is not to encourage everyone to become a scumbag, but to let everyone know what kind of man can attract women.
1. Demand
To make a girl feel good about you and break the ice as quickly as possible, you must Know what girls want.
And those scumbag guys who always change their girlfriends know the truth very well. For example, when a girl wants to go out, you can ask her out for a ride on a motorcycle, but when the girl doesn’t want to go out, you can ask her out for a ride. It's no use driving your Lamborghini.
Especially for couples who are in a long-distance relationship, don’t be stingy with your sweet words. You may have more red envelopes than anyone else on Valentine’s Day, but that day, the girl is still alone in the dormitory watching. Roommates work in pairs.
You think what you give her is the best, but you ignore that this is not what the girl needs.
Girls have only these three needs: investment, specificity, and security.
When you are pursuing a girl, these three points are indispensable. Investing in a girl attracts her, your specificity makes her feel that you are a good man, and your sense of security makes her feel that she can stay with you for the rest of her life.
As for what a girl likes, you can naturally tell it from her circle of friends and chats.
A sentence from a long time ago: At first I just wanted a hug. I accidentally got an extra kiss. Then I wanted a bed. A suite. A marriage certificate. When I got divorced, I realized that I just wanted a hug.
2. Attitude
There is a theory of relativity in love, when your goddess has a hundred lickers When you lick a hundred goddesses at the same time, then you are also a licking dog, and when you lick a hundred goddesses at the same time, then these hundred goddesses are your licking dogs.
Your goddess will not be blind, just because you have no attitude.
When a girl needs your investment, you cannot emotionally talk to her happily. You don’t want to spend money on her but you are too embarrassed to refuse. I want to express my dedication but don't dare to commit to the girl. I don’t work hard but I still want to give my girl a bright future.
Just like a girl I met yesterday:
“Online dating?”
“Have you ever seen 7 kilometers of online dating?”
When a girl asks you to borrow money, you have to learn to say no. If you can't make a promise to her, then be sincere to her. You can't give her a sense of security, but you have to let her see you're trying.
3. Details
It is easy for a woman to deny everything about you when she sees something bad about you. A person’s details are often The reflection of your own inner value.
Often if you don’t grasp some details well, you will have no chance. It’s like the girl is already blushing, but you are still hesitant to hold hands, and that girlfriend is always changing. The scumbag has already kissed her.
Be proactive and always be prepared to admit that you are a "bad man".
Before you pay attention to the details of the girl, you should first treat yourself. Handle the details well. Have a good daily routine and a valuable way of entertainment.
Women pay more attention to details than men. Maybe she looks up at you with a smile and is thinking " Why is this man so sloppy? ”
That’s why some people are surprised, why are they no longer interested in me after they only dated me once and we haven’t fully understood each other? In fact, through the details of one date, I have understood your inner self.
There is only one chance at that moment. If you don’t have the courage to do it at that time, you can only go home and regret it. Try to take the initiative first and then regret it. Do the first thing right at the beginning, such as holding hands first, and then you will start to feel nervous and regretful after holding hands.
