With the rapid development of the Internet and the popularity of social software, online dating has become normal. Many singles also meet their significant other through online dating. What should you pay attention to if you want to be successful in online dating?
If you want to be single and live alone through online dating, then you can’t do any of the following 8 things.
1. Excessive PS photos
I believe everyone knows that one of the four evil arts in Asia - China PS , and the current P-picture software is very intelligent, and a wrinkled aunt can be transformed into a sexy and hot goddess. If your online dating partner is such an aunt, I believe you will never believe in online dating again.
Therefore, if you want to gain love through online dating, it is best not to over-Photoshop on social software, and of course do not steal other people’s photos. These handsome photos may attract goddesses, but when you are dating online When you appear, you will still see the light die.
2. The scale of the topic is too large
As the saying goes, "It's fun to flirt with each other for a while, but you can meet at the crematorium." That is to say, if you chat online too much, the other party will also be willing to pick you up. If you talk about it, you often speak obscenely when chatting, and you will be exposed when offline and online dating occurs.
You must know that women are synonymous with reserve. She can talk to you over the Internet and you may feel very happy at the time, but when you invite to meet, she will use various methods to She excuses herself from your invitation because she doesn't want people to label her as slutty.
3. Excessive kneeling and licking
The essence of love is attraction. If you are overly flattering during online dating, Girls, then you have indirectly shown that your value is low and you need to put in more effort to pursue girls. Girls will feel that "you have no availability" because the easier it is to get, the less they will be cherished, and over-pleasing will only It will become a woman's "spare tire" or "licking dog".
4. Running thousands of miles for the other person
The sweetness of online dating lies in the illusion, because you can’t see or touch the other person, and you have very strong psychological fantasies about the other person. But after all, there are great risks in online dating, and even if you meet her, she is still an ordinary person.
If you travel thousands of miles to see each other, the two of you will also have to face a long-term long-distance relationship. In the end, if the two of you break up because of the long-distance relationship, the time and energy you spend will only increase your sinking. cost.
5. Send private photos of yourself
Online rumors are very scary. If you often send them private photos of yourself, If your private photos are discovered and posted online, your reputation and reputation will be seriously affected., the overwhelming rumors on the Internet will ruin your reputation, and it will also be very difficult for you to find a partner in the future.
6. Have too high expectations
In online dating, you can’t see the other person’s expression and tone, and it’s hard to guess what the other person really means by one word or expression. Therefore, we need to lower our expectations of online dating and not imagine the other person as too perfect to avoid creating a psychological gap.
7. Online dating is too casual
When dating online, don’t let the other person’s sweet words make you fall in love. Or if the photos or avatars are sexy and cute, then you fall in love with the other person based entirely on your feelings. After all, no matter how perfect love is, you have to face reality in the end, so you need to consider all aspects of whether the other person is suitable for you.
8. Do not choose public places when dating
When dating online, it is best to choose a place with many people during the day. Do not be impulsive and make an appointment to meet in a hotel for the first time. , on the one hand to prevent being jumped by the opponent's immortal, on the other hand, it is also for your own personal safety.
