What? There are many things I don’t know about love? When I saw this title, I thought it was impossible. How could there be things I didn’t know? As a result, after reading it, I found out that it was really , so today I also share it with you, let’s take a look at this article - things you don’t know about love!
< p> 1. Feelings are mutual, and feelings need management and feedback. If there is no feedback, leave as soon as possible.2. Don’t live for one person. Love is not everything in your life. People are still lonely most of the time.
3. Issues such as communication methods and time spent together should be discussed before confirming the relationship. Please carefully consider whether the three views of both of you are suitable. Taking into account factors such as personality, love purpose, and respective needs, please be careful when establishing a relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. Some people are only suitable for
Some people who are "ordinary friends" (the kind who don't always say hello when they meet and pretend not to see each other) only deserve a bit of ambiguity. Please don't mistake ambiguity for love.
4. The best revenge is no revenge. Please look forward and make yourself happy every day.
5. True love must rely on attraction and appearance , conversation, temperament, etc., the most important of which is independence, self-confidence, a kind of temperament and personality charm that naturally exudes without the need of others. Such people are the most deadly in the eyes of the opposite sex. .
6. Don’t have any thoughts. Don’t think that you are better than before after she is separated from you. She will regret not moving forward with you. What is inappropriate is still inappropriate after all. Some people were wrong from the beginning. It may not be your fault that you cannot continue, but that you should not be together.
7. When falling in love, control the rhythm. The relationship should be gradual. Falling in love is not about two people laughing and joking. It is about running into each other and getting to know each other's temperament in the process of getting along. Don't be too hasty.
8. Love less and love longer. The life trajectories of the other person and yours are different, which may be an important reason why you were attracted to each other in the first place. People are curious and want to know about mysterious things. After all, we should restrain ourselves from being vigorous and gushing, be reserved, leave some time and space to do our own things, retain a bit of mystery, and retain a bit of attraction for ourselves. Strength, love goes as quickly as it comes, don't use too much force. Let the other person lose your initial charm in his heart. True love does not require particularly romantic words. You can discover how good he is to you in the subtleties.
9. If you are in love for more than three days, unless you are very busy with something, I will not say a word to you, have no contact with you, and you will lose contact without saying a word. Then there is no need to contact each other, delete each other, and never see each other again!
10, Love is indeed cruel, and relationships are always unfair. There must be one party who pays more and devotes more energy. You think the other party will be very touched if you do a lot for her. In fact, it is all voluntary on your part. No wonder. other people.
11. Love is very strange. Often the one who loves more has little say. The one who invests more is the loser. Whoever gets emotional loses, and the winner often loses. He was the first to pull away.
12. The love stage will indeed pass. Couples in the love stage always stick together all day long, focusing on each other's advantages. After going through the running-in period, love in the ordinary period can be considered to have been settled, can stand the test, and is not frivolous. After all, love supported by the hormone dopamine is too easy to get.
13. When you question and wonder in your heart whether she still loves you, she no longer loves you as much as she did at the beginning.
14. People’s hearts are unpredictable. People who were once inseparable and intimate may turn into enemies. It's actually hard to keep your heart close to your heart, even if you are sleeping in the same bed.
15. Maybe you just fall in love with the feeling she brings to you, rather than the person she is.
16. Couples in love are really just two lunatics. Affected by hormones, your brain is irrational most of the time. At this time, you really should not make some private lifelong commitments easily. After breaking up, you will really call yourself stupid* at that time.
17. No matter how emotionally involved you are, never give up on your life pursuits and beliefs. No one can be everything to anyone unless you include her in your personal life and future plans.
18. Don’t give your sincerity easily. Even if you think the other person is suitable, 100%, on the surface, you should give 200% of your love to the other person, but in your heart, you only give 50% of your love. , please keep fifty percent for yourself.
19. Don’t give yourself to a person easily. Even if you feel that you have met her too late, the future is full of unknowns. It may be fine one second, but it may change the next second. Let Time will test everything.
20. When you feel tired of a relationship and start to question whether the other person still loves you that much, you have already begun to weigh it. When you care about your efforts and gains, problems have already arisen, and this problem is not small.
21. In fact, you know in your heart whether the other person likes you or not. Trust your intuition. If you think the other person doesn't like you that much, it means he doesn't like you that much. It is what it is.
22. All other things can depend on hard work. Love is different and can only depend on luck. In most cases, there may be only one chance between two people in a lifetime. So if you like someone very much, please don't miss her and express your like and love promptly and bravely.
23. Long-distance love, sister-brother love, online love, and graduation season generally account for two or more options. They are generally regarded as suicide attempts. If you must try it, please have the mentality of "come out and have fun and try it." Don't take it too much Seriously, because the ending is generally not too happy (there are a few that do, and special analysis will be done in special circumstances).
24. Long-distance relationships will amplify many problems. This is the stage where relationships should be cultivated, but all problems are based on reality. If there is no certain deep emotional foundation, long-distance relationships are the biggest test for couples.
25. There is no right or wrong in feelings. It is normal to not like you or not love you anymore, just like when I first fell in love with you. It is just a temporary feeling. There is no reason or reason. Okay. Just get together and disperse.
26. Don’t put all your feelings on one person, it’s really not worth it! She is not your world, not your everything, love is just an accessory and additive to your life, don’t forget You still have friends and parents.
27. Keep your own pace. Don’t respond enthusiastically just because the other person is enthusiastic. Calm down and ask yourself, do you really like her that much?
28. If you feel that something is wrong, don’t ignore your feelings. This must be something wrong. You must be good at saying it out. Individuals should work together to solve problems, rather than working toward their own goals. If they cannot be solved, one day it will break out and cause conflicts.
29. Don’t be too busy. If you are so busy that you regard love as the whole life, you will be finished sooner or later! When you are free, you will place your energy on the other person. Please take care of your own life and cultivate fixed interests and hobbies. , love is just the icing on the cake.
Summary: Although love is beautiful, it also needs to be maintained carefully. There are no two people who hit it off immediately. The relationship that is cultivated with care is the most real and the one that can best stand the test of time.