We all know that in the process of chasing girls, you may encounter the kind of girl who indulges in your lust. It’s not that she doesn’t like you, but she is not so active in pursuing you. So if you find that a girl is trying to get at you and ignoring a boy, what should the boy do? Is there any way to deal with such a lustful girl and make her accept you?
1. Analyze the meaning of girls playing hard to get
In fact, there are two possibilities for girls playing hard to get. One is that she likes you and wants to be with you, but is not sure what you mean. So I don't dare to take risks and indulge in lust. The second is that girls play with you just because they are lonely, and you are just a spare tire, so they are hot and cold.
If it is the first type, it is easier to handle. If you are more positive and proactive, you can open up the situation quickly.
If it is the second type, there is no need to get entangled, unless you are also lonely. As the saying goes, when you are one person's spare tire, you are a real spare tire; when you are ten people's spare tire, you are the King of Neptune.
Asking this question often does not mean that you don’t know what to do if the other party plays hard to get. The key to the question is how you distinguish between these two situations. This question is a very complicated one. Maybe the girl herself doesn’t know whether she is sincere or a scumbag. This requires you to observe more, brother, especially how girls interact with other people to make a comprehensive judgment.
2. Understand your attraction to girls
When you find that girls are trying to get you and ignore them, Boys must first recognize their own value. What is your attraction to girls? Secondly, have you expressed your pursuit or affection for her? If so, then you have exposed your needs. It is understandable that she will play hard to get at you. After all, you have needs for her and have a weakness in her. She Only when you understand this will I play hard to get you.
Finally, if you are very attractive to a girl (such as image, speech and behavior, attitude towards life, etc.) and have not exposed your needs, then you can also be attracted to her. Play hard to get. Manage your emotions well and don't pounce on her when she gives you a little sunshine. The more you do this, the more confident she will be. If her mood fluctuates first and she keeps coming to you, then you can confess her feelings. After all, confession is not a clarion call to charge, but a bell of victory.
3. Make it clear to girls
In fact, boys are very entangled when facing girls who are playing hard to get. To a large extent, it's because you like girls more, but you don't know what it means for girls to indulge in lust, so you're very confused. Since this is the case, it is best to tell the girl clearly: "I like you, can we be together?" If the girl agrees, everyone will be happy. If the girl does not agree, then it is time to stop the loss, and if the girl refuses, she will no longer be embarrassed to play hard to get with you. , sad and gave up, regrouped to like moreA girl worth liking. If a girl you don't like plays a sexual role with you, she can do whatever she likes, and you don't care. If you just want ambiguity, then if I haven't said anything above, then just play a game and see who can tolerate it.
Of course, sometimes boys think that girls indulge in lust and ignore boys, and think that girls are very scheming, but maybe girls are not I don’t know if you think her behavior is playing hard to get. Maybe she is just enjoying your pursuit and is afraid of losing you when you are indifferent. So, if you really like her, be brave and ask her what she really means.
