It’s natural to take the initiative in chasing girls, but if you are too proactive and give in to girls in everything, it is likely to turn into kneeling and licking, and you will not be able to chase girls in this way.
If you want to successfully capture a woman's heart, you must know the correct method and never kneel down and lick her.
Because when you "lick" the other person, it already shows that you are not worthy of this person?
< p> If the two of you have similar values, then you, as the one who actively pursues the relationship, may indeed have to spend some time and energy, but it will basically be within your capabilities and will not make you so tired.But if this person requires you to spend so much time and energy, and requires you to lower your posture to such a low level, just to make this person have the possibility to like you, then to put it bluntly: maybe this person is not interested at all. This is not the person you should be looking for. Even if you find someone, this relationship will make you very tired.
If this person really cares about you and has some affection for you, then believe me: even if you are the one pursuing him, this person cannot bear to make you work so hard - for boys, If a girl thinks that she is pretty good, when she realizes that the girl has a crush on her, she will basically agree after a brief understanding. For a girl, she may test the boy, but if she has a crush on him, she won't bear it. Let this boy pay so much for himself.
And when you put so much effort into pleasing the other person, it is impossible for the other person not to know that you have a good impression of yourself. Then here comes the interesting part - this person clearly knows your thoughts, but still acquiesces to you to do this. Isn't this plain to say:
What this person likes is not you at all, but being liked by you. The feeling of support?
Therefore, the more you lick the other person, the more you strengthen this person’s point of view: I am of high value, this person needs me, this person is not worthy of me, I I must get more benefits from him, otherwise I will lose money.
Secondly, the more you invest regardless of the cost, the more you are hurting yourself.
In the other person’s eyes, you were so nice when you were chasing me. Shouldn’t you be nicer to me after we get together? You were nice to me when we first got together, should that be the case later? After we have been together for a long time, you should devote yourself more wholeheartedly?
If you don’t give, you don’t invest, then you If you relax, it means that my status in your heart is getting lower and lower.
So have you discovered that at this time, you are the most cruel to yourself: because you have done something with 100 points, but after that, thisYour actions will become your passing mark.
But many people don’t think about this at all when they make early investments, so they keep investing and giving desperately until in the end they are unable to support the relationship at all. In the end, the bad guys still do it themselves:
As long as you slack off a little bit, it will be your problem, that is, you are not paying attention to this relationship, that is, you are in this relationship. No effort.
So, why does the other person’s appetite increase the more you lick it? To put it bluntly, isn’t it because – is it because you have been making trouble for yourself and making it more difficult for yourself?
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