Nowadays, many boys are dumb and don’t know how to please girls, so they have always been single. For these boys, the biggest wish is to find someone they can take home to meet their parents during the Chinese New Year. So what do you think? How can you find a suitable partner if you want to be single?
1. Expand your resource circle
< p> If you want to improve the success rate of getting out of singles, you must consider the favorable terrain.What is favorable terrain? It means that the location of hobbies and interests is "best to be in the outside world, not at home." Or go to a place where girls come and go more frequently.
If you have no interest, then directly locate the places where girls come and go more often, and then expand your resource circle of the opposite sex.
One of my former college classmates loved musical instruments very much. After graduation, he signed up for a musical instrument club after working and later met his current wife.
So if you like sports, it is best to go to the gym, go to the gym, and go outdoors.
You can also join online Douban groups to meet friends of the opposite sex, and you can use various social platforms to expand resources.
You can also participate in various offline lectures, reading clubs, fellow alumni associations, alumni associations, entrepreneurial salons, city walks, art exhibitions, etc.
In this way, you can expand your resource circle, then screen out the target objects, and then use "financial thinking" to achieve the purpose of getting out of the order.
2. Take the initiative
In fact, it is very simple to leave the order, as long as you take the initiative enough, Constant contact with the opposite sex, constant expression of ambiguity and good feelings, it is absolutely inevitable to be single. There is no such thing as being unable to find a partner and being single.
Although what you find in this way may not be what you really like, so we still need the next trick.
3. Make good use of financial thinking
To put it simply, financial thinking is to use what you have now Resources are quantified and then utilized to the extreme through financial operations.
When it comes to relationships, you need to quantify your own values, and then display them rationally to bring them to the extreme, exuding a unique appeal to attract your target.
For example, you meet a boy at a reading club. Later you learn that this boy is an engineer in the communications industry, but he is more interested in history.
And you don’t know anything about the communications industry, but you graduated from the Chinese Department of Peking University, so at this time you have to make use of your strengths and avoid weaknesses, bring into play your high-value side, and often discuss historical knowledge with him.
In this way, firstly, you can cater to what he likes, satisfy his needs in terms of interests, and give him the feeling of meeting a close friend; secondly, you can display your value and let the other person's appreciation of you stay at your level. In terms of inner knowledge, let him be attracted by your inner charm.
Generally speaking, financial thinking is divided into three steps:
First, value Quantify. After you have an in-depth understanding of your target audience, summarize the overall value of the other person, and then compare it with your own overall value to see how high the value can be, compare the highs and lows, and figure out what you are good at and what the other person is interested in.
Second, rational display. Show the value based on the other party's interest. You can display it reasonably in the circle of friends and during the conversation with the other party. Be sure to remember to use your strengths and avoid your weaknesses.
Third, maximize value attractiveness. It is to maximize the value that you can attract to the other party. For example, in the above example, when talking about history with the other party, it is best to use interesting stories and anecdotes that ordinary people cannot know.
If you do the above three steps properly, you will be able to successfully attract the other person.
Finally, when it comes to finding a partner, it boils down to one sentence, which is to take the initiative to find someone, then use financial thinking to maximize the attraction effect of your own value, and finally get rid of being single.
