Many boys find it difficult to find a partner. In fact, what hinders your progress in being single is not that there is no partner to develop, nor that there is no one who can make your heart beat, but that your thinking has framed yourself in a dead space. in the cycle. Without further ado, let’s see if you have any of these 4 wrong ideas.
1. Beautiful girls must have a partner
Boys have this idea, in the final analysis It's still caused by my own preconceived and inferior way of thinking.
If you are always used to thinking like this, you might as well think in reverse next time:
If everyone thinks like this, then no one will dare to pursue this girl. La? Then should I give it a try? Even if it doesn’t work, it would be nice to make a friend.
Look, there is no reason not to do such a thing that is sure to make money without losing money. Maybe you are the successful person, so be more confident.
2. It is definitely difficult to chase aloof girls
In fact, most girls are not really aloof. Cold, that's just the protective color they put on themselves.
Many boys are put off by their cold appearance. What do you think you're afraid of? Could she eat you or something?
So, don't have this kind of prejudice anymore. Once you get to know them, you will find that under the appearance of their royal sisters, there is often the soul of a sweet girl hidden. If you don’t get in touch with them, you will definitely not be able to see them.
3. Girls who love to play must be bad girls
It’s the 21st century, but there are still people Use some unreasonable standards to judge whether a girl is a "bad girl".
Those with tattoos must be promiscuous. Girls with a particularly cheerful personality and many friends of the opposite sex must not be serious girls. They must be good at dealing with boys and must have no shortage of boyfriends.
I can only say that you are so simple.
Have you forgotten that Lin Youyou, who has been scolded by thousands of netizens and has been on the hot search list?
Does she go to bars often or smokes and drinks? Or is she not pure enough? ?Then why don’t you coax other people’s husbands around in the end?
So, don’t be too arbitrary in judging whether a girl is trustworthy or not.
4. Independent girls are very strong
Many boys think that independent girls can do anything by themselves , what kind of boyfriend do you want?
Boys like to be protective. How can they feel any sense of accomplishment in front of such a girl??
Independence is just a choice, maybe even a forced choice.
Isn’t there such a saying, if someone is pampering, who wants to grow up?
Those girls who seem to be alone and can shoulder everything, it’s not like she doesn’t Needing protection, on the contrary, it is precisely because there is no one to protect you that you have to be strong on your own.
She has not compromised on life, maybe she is just waiting for someone who truly understands herself and is willing to love and care for herself.
Perhaps when you get closer, you will find that their strength is reserved for themselves, and when dealing with friends and lovers, they actually have a very warm and tender side.
It’s just that before she meets the person who truly understands her, she doesn’t want to show it easily.
