A childish relationship will definitely not last long. Therefore, even if a girl is childish in love, as a boy, we should be mature and steady. So how to fall in love maturely?
Next, let’s learn about the 5 manifestations of a mature and stable man in love:
1. Have your own Pursuit
If you are a boy, just pursue the so-called love. When you become a man, you will know: in order to defend the love you pursue, you must pursue something else.
You devoted yourself wholeheartedly to her, delaying your own development. In the end, the other party left you because she couldn't live a good life with you. Is this the result you want? Is this the result of Wenrouxiang? Tomb of Heroes, a man’s pursuit must be the stars and the sea.
2. Have your own attitude
The so-called "dog lickers" are immature people: they don't know what they want, they don't know their own value What is it, so they all put their hopes on girls - please, please like me; please, stay with me, let my life have more meaning... You See, when you lose yourself, you lose control of the relationship.
Relationship between the sexes is a process of mutual selection. You must have your own standards and your own attitude, and you cannot let others lead you by the nose: when you encounter other people’s unfriendly behavior towards you, you You can completely turn away and leave without coddling or serving.
3. Know how to make progress
Don’t pursue absolute tolerance - you lie in bed every day and gnaw at your old age. , your parents can’t stand you, how can you expect someone to never leave you?
A person chooses to let himself into your life, even if others don’t pursue anything, you will Give this person an explanation, an explanation. Learn to make progress, learn to work hard, and don't let down the youth and trust others have given you - you need to let this person know that you will use your next results to prove that that person made a correct choice.
4. Understand the other person’s real needs
“Why do you always play games?” It’s not that she has trouble with games, it’s that she feels that you spend too little time with her and she needs you. More concern; "Why are you still like this now?" It's not because she dislikes poverty and loves wealth. If she disliked poverty and loved wealth, she wouldn't be with you. She is dissatisfied with your lack of progress;" "Where did you go wrong?" The correct answer is definitely not this one thing. You have to think carefully about what similar problems you have not solved before...
What does it mean to understand girls and understand girls? It is to extract her core needs wrapped in complex emotions and readGot it, solved it.
5. Know how to achieve a person
A woman’s first level of happiness is called "We are together ", the companionship you provide at this time makes her no longer lonely;
A woman's second level of happiness is called "I am XXX's person", at this time what you provide is a promise, an identity. Guaranteed;
And the highest level of happiness is called "I am myself". Through the time she spent with you, she understood that she can love others and deserves to be loved, and she got you. With respect and affirmation, she gets better and better with you. At this time, your love and recognition make her feel valuable.
Know how to achieve her and make her confident and happy, instead of living as your appendage.
