Some boys try their best to pursue girls, but in the end they make girls hate them more and more. What is the reason? This is a problem with the way of pursuing. Today, let’s talk about the pursuit methods that make girls disgusted. When chasing girls, you must learn to avoid lightning.
1. "Can only talk" type
When a girl catches a cold, you just talk The sweetest words of comfort are to drink more hot water and take care of yourself. In fact, I don’t take my eyes off the computer.
Valentine’s Day is here, and other young lovers are sending gifts to each other, but you haven’t bought anything. You only prepared a few earthy love words, and you even said in a beautiful way, “What’s mine is not yours.” I’ll treat you to a big dinner next time.
Being able to say nice things to make girls happy is a bonus, but if your actual actions cannot keep up with what you said before, then over time, the sense of loss will gradually accumulate, and people can still trust them. You?
It will only make girls feel that you are unreliable and they will not feel safe when getting along with you.
So, the outcome is your own choice.
In the final analysis, pursuing someone who can only talk and talk is very cheap in the eyes of girls, and may directly rule you out.
2. "Domineering CEO" type
There are too many boys who want to play even if they are not CEOs. A domineering one.
For example, he might ask you not to have contact with other friends of the opposite sex, he might ask you to give up your favorite dressing style, he might ask you not to talk and listen to his arrangements.
Sometimes, girls deep down are willing to be led and controlled by powerful men, but the premise is that you are either rich, talented, handsome, or as gentle as water to her, you have to have the same Right?
Otherwise, why are you so domineering? Because you love smoking, because you love drinking, because you love playing games and are as lazy as a dog?
So, it’s not that you can’t be a “tyrannical president” " route, but to make girls admire and worship you from the bottom of their hearts, you must first have a diamond.
If your appearance, financial conditions, social status, EQ and IQ are not better than those of girls, and you still tyrannically order the other party to do everything you want, it will be your fate to be blacklisted sooner or later.
3. "Sentimental" type
People are obviously just communicating between ordinary friends, yours Your little heart starts to beat wildly, thinking wildly that people like you too.
Isn’t this a joke that you accidentally let others see?
For example, if a girl says “Good night, go to bed early”,Maybe it's just out of politeness, or he wants to end the embarrassing topic, but in the eyes of the sweet and confident man, it's a different style: Do you like me? You also said good night to me and advised me to go to bed early. I also I like you.
Another example is when a girl says "I'm going to take a shower", which is obviously a sign that she wants to end the chat, but some boys will think: you must like me, because we have only known each other for a long time, and you even want to take a shower with me. report. I love you too.
Such boys are often the most likely to become lickers, because they can always see hope and always feel that they can catch up with the other person as long as they work harder. Although this hope is completely imaginary.
Confidence is of course a good thing. Many young men always feel that they are not worthy of the girl they like because of various low self-esteem, so they dare not take action and miss a lot of fate.
But it’s not good to be overconfident. You always think that the other person likes you, which will also cause trouble to the other person and appear to be asking for trouble.
