Many people think that the weakening of a relationship is basically caused by discord between the two parties, but in fact, another major factor that makes the relationship weaken is that they are too familiar, so familiar that they can even understand every inch of the other person's skin. Any novelty, even intimacy, is like the left hand touching the right hand. Let the relationship enter a dull period, how should you spend it when the relationship enters a dull period?
A relationship is mutually exclusive. There may be conflicts and friction between them, but because they love each other, they are tolerant and accommodating. After all, no one is perfect, and there may be disagreements with each other's opinions and ideas, but with tolerance and accommodation, it will be over.
It is not unthinkable that a normal relationship will enter a dull period too quickly. Under the premise of excluding not loving each other, the easier it is to cultivate a tacit understanding between two people, the faster they will enter the dull period!
In addition, it also has a lot to do with one's own personality, especially if both people are dull. This type of person cannot have a romantic relationship and is more likely to manage their relationship in a stable and stable way.
The dull period is a stage that any relationship must go through. Some people will enter the dull period earlier than others. Although there is less passion during the dull period, feelings can exist in a more stable state, and only thin water can flow for a long time.
Therefore, there is no need to be afraid of the dull period, but to face it calmly and not to let yourself continue to be trapped in anxiety. Anxiety will seriously reduce the love experience. If the love experience is not good, it will really shake the foundation of the relationship.
Of course, adapting to the ordinary does not mean settling for the ordinary. Being ordinary for a long time will become a pool of stagnant water, which is not conducive to the healthy development of relationships after all.
A common way to improve is to travel together, participate in some stimulating activities, etc.
In addition, you can also add some self-disclosure links, such as sharing some innocuous little secrets with him, or sharing some things that you are usually embarrassed about. Say the words out loud to the other person.
In fact, there is no so-called absolutely correct way to get rid of the emotional dull period so that each other can enter a stable warm period. The tender period required by each couple is different, but you can first imagine what kind of tender period you want, what the other person wants, and then combine them to make it perfect for both of you. Just create a desired emotional state and manage and maintain it.
