Cold wars between lovers are very common, and such behavior is very hurtful. There is a saying that goes well: quarrels at the head of the bed and quarrels at the end of the bed, quarrels between lovers, as long as the conflict can be resolved and reconciled in a timely manner, it will be helpful to the relationship. But the cold war between lovers is different. It is difficult to break the deadlock of silence between both parties, and naturally it is difficult to resolve the conflicts that arise between the two parties. Below, the editor will tell you 3 methods on how couples who are having a cold war can speak humorously to successfully break the deadlock of silence.
1. Use social software
In the cold war between lovers, both parties remain silent The main reason is that both parties can't help but take the initiative to find each other. Therefore, since you can’t keep your face and speak out, you might as well use social software to try to break the silence.
For example, send a hint in a circle of friends to show weakness, and then like the other person. If the other person wants to relax, they will like and comment, and then you can start communicating happily. You can also try to use emoticons to liven up the atmosphere when communicating. Use all kinds of cute emoticons and she will definitely want to end the cold war with you.
2. Exploiting Weaknesses
If a couple is already living together, then when they are having a cold war, you might as well try Try tightening all the bottle caps at home until they are difficult to open. Then when the other party can't open it, she will naturally come to you. Even if the girl doesn't take the initiative to speak, you can naturally take the bottle in her hand and help her open it. It's that simple.
If your girlfriend is a foodie, you can ask her "do you want a midnight snack" when she is very hungry, and then you can get along happily.
The easiest way is that everyone will go to the toilet in the morning. You just need to hide the toilet paper...she will definitely call you. By analogy, using each other's weaknesses to fight back is the most skillful solution.
3. How to be cute with words
Who says that being cute is the prerogative of girls? Sometimes I annoy girls Friends will act cute when they are angry. Here is a template for how to act cute:
Dear, I’m sorry! I know I was wrong, woohoo... I was so wrong. Hehe... It’s not your fault, but I’m saying this to you. If you have a small temper, it is right for your wife to be angry, but don’t make yourself angry or hurt your body. She didn’t do it on purpose. I won’t dare to do it next time. Write it down in a notebook and keep it in your heart. I will never offend my wife again!
Forgive me! Forgive me, my wife, I love you so much,
I promise I won’t do it again next time. Give me a chance to make up for my mistakes. From now on, you will be whatever you say. If you ask me to go east, I don’t dare to go west. If you ask me to drink water, I won’t eat snacks! Wife, weReconciliation?
I’m so sad too. If you don’t forgive me, I’m going to cry... Wuwu...
In fact, during the Cold War, as long as one party can lower its attitude appropriately , compared to quarrels, conflicts can be resolved more quickly and reconciled. So, when you start a cold war, why not speak generously and humorously to give the other person a step down. For example, just send a WeChat message saying that the recent movie I heard is very good, you really want to watch it, and want to watch it with her? I heard that there is a particularly delicious snack there, you really want to eat it, and you want to take her there. In short, a good relationship should not torture each other with too much cold war, but should learn to express love and communicate with love.
After all, it is not shameful to break the silence first, not to mention that the other person is the person you love.